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Solara, I'm not sure if I am reading your responses wrong or anything. Im not complaining about my feelings being on the back burner....I see how it reads that way though. I was complaining about it pre diagnosis. Now I am 1)venting cause even with understandingit sucks. And 2) asking...

I can imagine a lifetime with her. I know you say it is too early which I understand. But when things are happy between us I honestly saw no problems. a little things but we both acknowledged them and they got better. I guess I am just wondering if we will ever get back to that happy place.

Ya.....that makes sense but I am not going to do that.....how can I make her understand that I just feel helpless......I know the answer....I am just venting. I love her and her son more than I can explain. Its just hard to see her hurt and not let me help even in a little way

She was Diagnosed around 2 weeks ago. It is what I am attributing our last month of constantly being at eachothers throats. I understand she is dealing with a lot right now. She lives with two Bipolar people (Her sister and mom) and she pays half the rent there so she cant really escape...

I told her im giving her space, but the occasional message apparently was also too much. She said it stressed her out knowing she wasn't going to respond. It seems like all her distance is her way of trying not to hurt me. I think she feels certain obligations in a relationship....but i...

Around 5 months ago I met the most amazing girl ever. She had a son and I was terrified of lots of things. She eased those fears and things have been amazing since. She told me that she considers me to be the sons father. I have been in lots of relationships and not a single one has...