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Hi guys, For anyone that hasn't seen some of my most recent posts, I am married to a sufferer who has mistreated me and pushed to the point that he started seeing me as abusive and spiteful (I have been very angry with the behaviors and the excuse that it's what he needs to feel like a real...

my sufferer is being a complete jerk to me and I don't think it can be reasonably attributed to his illness, but I really have no one to talk to about it and I need help figuring this out. I stupidly let him move his friend in when she told him about her abusive boyfriend. They have both quit...

I am a bit dazed and in shock, but in desperate need of advice so I'm trying to be as clear a possible. I am a supporter. I also struggle with depression and anxiety. My husband, PTSD sufferer, cheated on me a few years back. We reconciled, but I have had a hard time holding him to boundaries...

So in all of this craziness, I have really lost sight of enjoying my husband. Sometimes it feels easier to just not be around him honestly. What do you do to keep from letting that feeling of just not dealing with it take hold? How do I like my husband again?

So I made my boundaries about our relationship clear to my husband. Great advice from everyone, btw, thank you. But he still just asked me to think about how I would feel if he went to a concert at a bar with another woman (one of his friends). Seriously?! I feel like he's trying to make me into...

How do you deal with it when something you say or do angers your sufferer? I have never done anything to hurt mine, have put up with more than I should to try and help him and yet my motivations are questioned and even assumed to be vindictive whenever he doesn't agree with what I do, or it...

My husband is a combat PTSD sufferer. He left me about two months ago. He comes every so often to visit our two young children. Today during naptime we had some time to talk. After a few difficult subjects, he had to leave. He says that his therapist has told him when he feels himself get too...

So, here is my basic situation. I have been dealing with my husband's PTSD for two years by basically ignoring it. I would work around it to be functional, but he was very good at hiding and lying about his symptoms. It turns out he had a plan to commit suicide. He confided this to a female...

I am the wife of a USMC combat veteran. I have spent the last two plus years allowing my husband to deal with his PTSD how he is comfortable, ie, not dealing with it. Now that we both recognize that he needs professional help, he has started to pursue therapy through the VA and is seeing a...