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With that being said I think I'll give him another chance. I got my point across and he understands that he hurt me so now I'll let his actions decide the outcome of our relationship.

I guess you're right @Al_Lurker and I told him that same thing.

@Gingerly, I already brought it up yesterday and he didn't defend her but he didn't say much either. He says he doesn't want to make her mad and then she keep his kids from him. They have already a court order he gets his girls. I understand his kids come first but c'mon!

@Gingerly you're very right. She definitely knows about me. She is being very immature and disrespectful and I know she is trying to play with his head and she obviously got to mine. She doesn't know it though. I'm not about to let that happen either. I refuse to stoop to her level and let her...

Thank you everybody for all of your responses. They have given me some inner sense of strength and knowledge.

@Al_Lurker THANK YOU! That is my point dead on because he does have children. He should have been defending me not pretending I don't exist. That is why I am so upset. You don't even know how good that felt to see those words on the screen from a man. As far as discussing it. I have, and he...

@Gingerly, I don't know what to do? I don't know what to say? Do I give him an ultimatum? Do I just take my things and run as fast and far as I can? UGH

@Gingerly thank you for your response. I actually had thought my new guy was a good guy and in a way he some what was. I found out that he still has friendly little conversations with his ex wife (nothing sexual), she sends him old family photos and she sends pics of some girl her now ex cheated...

Thanks Gingerly. :-)

brat17: It took you 4 years? Wow that's a lot of hard days and I'm glad you were able to overcome that situation. I hope it doesn't take me much longer or that it's not a forever thing for me like some people. Kind of like the "one who got away" type of ordeal. It's already been a year and I'm...

Well here I am again to report an update of how I am doing. So you know how people say "a good way to get over someone is to date somebody new"? Well I have a met someone new by accident that I have been dating for 4 months now and he's a wonderful guy, BUT I can't report that I am over my ex...

I am really sad to hear your situation and I'm sorry your heart is breaking. My ex bf has combat ptsd and I've gone through the break/make up situation as well and it's hard. No matter if it was six months or one year if you love him you love him and nobody can change your mind but you. Think...

This brought tears to my eyes. :'-) Thank you.

Goodness ladies. Are we all dating the same man? Well I guess mine is now over but everything said here I have gone through. I just wish I knew why they are so loving and caring at first and than turn in to machines with no emotion. If they knew they were cold hearted why did they get involved...

Thank you all for the responds and support! I am so happy to have found this forum as I am sure I've mentioned before. It's just so nice to have a place to vent and be heard and understood. What sucks is having had a short relationship and I fear it will take me twice as long as that to get over...

Nursenurse....this just flat out sucks. I hope it goes away soon because technically and this is going to sound like I'm absolutely the dumbest woman in the world but It's been a full year since the actual breakup but we've had our on again off again thing....I hope it doesn't take another full...

5 a.m. I woke up straight out of bed panting as if I had just ran a marathon, heart racing fast and all I can hear is my heart beating and the sound of my breath, tears start running down my face and all I can do is roll on my side and cry myself back to sleep. Is this what PTSD sufferers...

SrongHeart you are very welcome. I cried too. Best wishes to you and you're vet. :D

Thank you all for you're love and support, It means the world to me and I am so glad to have found this forum. This is going to be a long process of trying to get over him. It hurts but I cannot continue to make myself sick anymore. I love him but I have to let him go. :'-( It hurts.

Thanks nomedic1

It's official. After a long year of crying, wondering, researching desperately to help the person I love the most with understanding his PTSD and making sure I can give him the best love and support I can is over. After a long time of no contact and the space I thought he needed I decided to...

omg...I just text him. I finally got the courage to message him and I sent it and now i'm crying like a weirdo, so afraid of the rejection or being ignored. I can't bring myself to look at my phone.

Thanks :( I hate feeling jealous its so ugly. And unfortunately no we haven't had contact in 4 months.

According to Wikipedia: Jealousy is an emotion, and the word typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something of great personal value, particularly in reference to an existing connection. So This is the emotion I am...

I found an awesome book to help up supporters with our soldiers who suffer with PTSD called (Love Our Vets Restoring Hope for Families of Veterans) by Welby O'brien. It's pretty awesome so check it out or visit her website which the web address is the same as the book title. Best wishes. xoxox