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Thank you all for the responses. In moments of "weakness" he has broken down enough to say that he loves me, but that he can't be with me, doesn't deserve me, I should move on, find someone else, blah blah blah. What does that even mean? If you love me, why the hell would you want me to be with...

It's like he's a different person now. We have been broken up for seven weeks now, we were together for five years. This is not our first break up. We were planning to get married, move into an apartment and have another child. Even just four days before breaking up we were talking about...

We have been apart for about a month now. We spoke hardly at all for most of that time. Now he seems to be opening up again, responding more personally, being more chatty, making eye contact with me, joking around with me.. Etc. I see glimpses of the person I knew before he pushed me so far away...

Today I'm at the point where I've just had it. I'm tired of being the one to take the hardest hit. I'm tired of being blamed and neglected in every sense of the word. I'm tired of giving everything I've got just to get nothing in return. PTSD or not, this is just selfish cold heartless behavior...

My life continues on the same path I planned for myself before we ever met. But he and I being fine, everything being completely normal, then all of a sudden him going off the deep end and ripping the life we had together from under my feet is what makes this so hard for me.

Thank you both for the responses I definitely understand what you mean about feeling like you're not worth the time. If I get a negative response, am I supposed to take that as it will never be ok again? If I get no response am I suppose to take it as it will never be ok again?? I feel really...

We've been broken up about 3 weeks now...would it be a bad idea for me to text him that I love and miss him? I haven't seen him since thanksgiving day when he picked up our daughter. I'm really coming to the end of my rope. I miss my best friend more than I can say:(

I am doing my best to care for myself and our daughter through all of this. If he told me that he was having a hard time, was feeling bad, and needed some time to himself to think and settle down, but would come talk to me when he was done instead of blaming me for everything in his life, I...

Thanks for the responses. I certainly have no problem hearing things that I do not want to hear. It's part of life. I suppose it is hard to communicate the whole dynamic to a bunch of strangers over the internet. For as long as I have been with him, I have always put myself on the very back...

We've been broken up for two weeks, he all of a sudden got really distant and emotionally cut off. This has happened before, but I'm at the end of my rope dealing with this this time of the year, just about every year. How long am I supposed to expect this to last until the person I know comes...

Was I wrong in interpreting the purpose of this site as a means of support for those dealing with a loved one who has PTSD? Seemingly the majority of these responses insinuate that I am the problem here and how wrong I was to respond to him in the way that I did. True, I did not respond the way...

Hello all, I have been doing tons of research on PTSD, and joined this forum so I could hopefully get some thoughts/advice on my personal circumstance. I warn you this may turn out longer than I would like, but I feel all the details are important in putting this together. My boyfriend, well ex...