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Thank you all. It feels so good to have someone discuss this with me without getting mad. Nothing like being broken up with over the phone and being kept in the wings till she finds someone else. Im guessing this isnt the ptsd. Its her being her. I am wondering how long she usually is in...

I am so distraught. My ex is talking to someone else already. It hurts so badly. I thought it might be the ptsd, but she has already moved on. This is after she told me it wasnt me. That she was never in love with me, but just loved me. That she didnt know what would happen in a month or in...

There are genuine people out there. I have had very few friends who have been with me for years. Rightkind of me is right. They will drift in and out. But they are always there. It sounds more like the people u were friends with may be the ones not worth your time. Not the other way around.

Wow. there are so many reasons for this shutting out thing. I want to be patient and wait. But last weekend she told me she was never in love with me, but still in love with her ex. It was the day after her therapy. I feel like I should just give up.

Not long 6 months.

My sufferer told me Thursday that she thought I was trying to ilicit some responce from her because I was going to my ex's parents. She got really mad at me. I think she was trying to make her jealous. But I wasnt. If I want to know if she was jealous, I would just ask. She told me she...

Have any of you ever "clicked" with your therapist? I have been going to therapy to better myself and work on my issues. I told me x I didnt want to go and that I get annoyed when I have to go. I told her that I see through the therapist and that I feel like sometimes she isnt genuine. She...

I'm just really down and tired today. I am having a hard time being angry. I am upset that she loved me so completely and then, nothing! No love, it left her eyes and everything. I hate that she called me her people and left me. I hate that she pushed me out of her life physically but still...

I am sad that this thread is making want to give up on the woman I love. :-( Yep Im a pussy!

DITTO!!! JessMar0126

Wow. thank you for sharing that. We were in a same sex relationship too. It doesn't matter on this forum. no one has said anything to me anyway. Shame on the sister for being such a jerk... shame on your x girlfriend, because whether she likes it or not, you were in a relationship.... It...

Wow. You are amazingly brave to share this.

Welcome!

Im so sorry to hear about what happened with your fiance. How long were you dating before this happened? Had she exhibited any signs before this? How long has she been avoiding you? Feel free to contact me to vent or chat. I know how hard it is.

My sufferer broke up with me a few weeks ago. She said she needed a "break", I of course gave it, but she contacted me like after 1.5 days or 2 days. Since then we have contact every day. I started to read all the threads feel like I should give up. But she is contacting me or texting back...

When it comes to wanting to know what he/she has been through, when and if he/she is ready, they will start telling you. I am a supporter and when I ask, it pushed buttons with her and caused her to be upset. When I didnt ask and she was ready to tell me, she did.

She says that she doesn't really have much in the way feelings right now and is just trying to survive. She is in therapy once a week. She also rides horses to as a theraputic thing in her life. I highly doubt she will never change. I know she is in there somewhere. I know it will be a long...

She doesn't want to talk about feelings right now. So I am respecting that. I just figured if she didn't want to continue, because she knows I am not just going to give up, that she would tell me to shove off and get out of her life.

I thought I had seen some books that were posted for supporters to help them understand more. Does anyone know what books they were?

Thank you.

I am of course letting her. I have no choice. She asked for a break before we broke up. I gave it, less so than now because I didnt understand as much. I have been giving her space and letting her do what she needs to do. I told her I would wait. She is afraid of me waiting, more than I am...

My girlfriend dumped me. She has ptsd. She had shut me out. Everything was going great for 4 months, except my x is living with me and wont leave till i refi and I cannot do that yet due to credit. We were talking about moving in together and spending forever together. Then she pushed away...

The thing was, we had space before. Maybe I misrepresented. We would have usually 2 days a week where we would have our separate days. I am happy for her sucess. I know space is healthy. I am willingly giving her space. But I am also feeling abandoned too. I am encouraging her and...

Hi. I have been dating a woman with ptsd. She had some trauma, many traumas. We have been dating for about 4 months. She had issues with my parenting of my son. We were seeing each other about every day. She was not working at the time and now she is working full time too. Then suddenly...