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Hello everyone. I know I said I was getting off this site but I had to come back here and apologize to everyone. When I wrote this post I was so hurt about everything that was happening in my world. I was already lonely because I moved somewhere completely new and she was a source of support at...

From coming to this site I realize now that I was pretty harsh when I was told not to contact my gf. Then again, I don't think it's an excuse to completely ignore someone you know is worried about you for weeks let alone months. I completely understand needing space. Space is a week or two tops...

That's because that's what I hope for vs what's really happening. I want her to be happy and safe and no I'm not dire pecking her boundaries. She literally told me today that she needed no contact and so I purposely deleted the app we were talking on so I wouldn't be tempted. She can call if she...

I still do not see what the issue is. She said no contact. I am not talking to her.

I am not even disrespecting her boundaries ...chill out. I am leaving her alone. I came here to get some advice on how to deal with a first time PTSD relationship not to be ridiculed by those who do have it. If I didn't care about her and our relationship I wouldn't be here. Anyone would be...

You need to get out of there ASAP. That behavior will happen again!

I don't think I do at least. I've gone through therapy for years but it seems useless sometimes since I can't remember a lot of my childhood...or a lot of things actually. I just know that my problems show in my relationships. I am caring though. Sometimes too caring.

I do not have PTSD

This might just be me being desperate at this point, but if I was nothing but supportive for three weeks then sort of lashed out when I was told not to contact her because she is "f*cked up right now" would you disregard all the care and support I put in previously? My biggest fear is that my...

Thanks you so much Taylor30313. That meant a lot.it sounds kind of sick to say but I actually viewed her disease as a way to connect with her like I couldn't connect with anyone else. All my past relationships have been with healthy people and never thought they understood real trauma. She's...

That makes sense. I still feel a little cheated...I have some issues of my own (childhood abuse) and I told her about it after I pushed her away for a couple days. I felt so (and still feel) so lost sometimes that I almost wanted to push her away for good. Then I realized that I didn't want to...

I guess I still have hope because I have read stories of people coming around once they have healed on their own. I know for right now we cannot be in a relationship. She is still recovering and , frankly, I don't think I am ready to handle this type of relationship right now unless I know she...

Justmehere don't tell me that I'm bullshitting anything. I was concerned for her. I really was. I still care for her. I am greatly relieved that she is alive and well.

I appreciate your input joeylittle. I'm still just trying to understand the disease. Yes, honestly, I did feel abandoned. I did visualize this great long distance relationship once I started classes at a university I wanted to go to. I was just confused (and still am a little confused) on how...

Again...I'm not upset that she didn't talk to me or wanted space. I am upset because I merely wanted to know if she harmed herself and physically okay.

I didn't know she had ptsd until later. She told me about it a little, but it didn't seem like a big deal. I've never seen it get triggered so I had no idea what this disease actually entailed.

I do not plan on contacting her anymore. I deleted the app we used to talk to each other and that was the only way we could talk. She has my number if she wants to contact me. I have eliminated all sources for me to contact her.

I want to be with her, but only if she gets help. I will even pay for her to get help. She was getting help, but then she couldn't afford it. I don't even mind not talking as long as I know that everything is ok...I appreciate your input FridayJones. If she does come around, I do want to offer...

So you are basically telling me that you wouldn't be upset if your girlfriend (who you talked to frequently everyday and hung out frequently) stopped talking to you after you you wouldn't be upset? I was deeply concerned that something really bad happened. I just asked her to text me if she was...

I've never been in this situation before. Having someone that I am dating drop off the face of the Earth for over two weeks after I tried to see if she was ok then say not to contact her was a little upsetting. One time I pulled away from her and she was pretty upset with me. I think I have a...

Thank you for the responses...I know we haven't been going out that long but I was extremely depressed when she met me and made me so happy when I was around her. I wish I didn't end the conversation so harshly, but I didn't want her to think she could walk all over me (and that's how I felt). I...

Does that mean she doesn't want to see me anymore?

Thank you for the response. I feel bad that my last texts seemed a little harsh. Is she likely to come back if she senses I'm angry or did I completely push her away?

My gf and I have only been going out for a couple months. She was really sweet, but I could tell she was pretty introverted. We talked everyday and hung out multiple times a week. Then we got into a fight a couple days before I moved two hours away...but we made up the morning before I left. We...