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Hi Scout, I get what your saying. Yes her family does have a big influence over her thinking. Although she thinks she has her own mind. Her family are very good at manipulation especially her mother and son. Until she was diagnosed she did seem to have her own mind but I think they have seen a...

Now she's really angry. She informed me that there isn't that much wrong with her. Only the lack of sleep and the nightmares, other than that she's ok. She doesn't have twisted thinking or depression. Apparently this is all my fault I'm a liar and I've pushed her away and she's not ill. She...

Hi Sangamo, hearing your still together gives me hope although at the moment I'm not sure how much. I know that none of this is my doing and my wife is projecting all of her anger onto me. I pray for her and my daughter. Thank you for your support

Thanks Sangamo for your reply. I take it you are together at the moment? My wife is convinced that we should separate. I'm hoping that if she can start treatment and stabilise before the house is sold perhaps we can avoid the separation. I love my wife and I too want her to get better. I'm...

Hi Sangamo, Thanks for your reply. Please tell me did you stay together. My wife hasn't started treatment yet. She has an appointment with psychiatrist in 2 weeks. I hoping once she has stabilised it might get better

Ok, I think I've really screwed up. I spoke to my one of my wife's daughters to explain what is going on to try to get some support. It has backfired and she told her mother. I also left some literature lying around explaining about PTSD in the hope my wife might read and understand more about...

Hi Stillstanding, My wife is at the moment more of a Mr Hyde than Dr Jekyll. I only thought of borderline because of the sudden change and the fact she seems to have me painted black (all bad). She has never shown signs of suicide or really even bad behaviour prior to the turn of events last...

Hi Stillstanding, Although I might have said my wife seemed like she had Borderline traits, she hasn't been diagnosed Borderline. She has however been diagnosed with extreme C-PTSD. It was her that said I was like Jekyll and Hyde not the other way round. Like here's how it goes. I try to be...

Her family think I'm the problem too. Her mother has been told about the PTSD but she is too ignorant to acknowledge it is a problem and will sweep it under the carpet and blame me. Her kids only know that we are having problems and don't know about the PTSD. They just had a family day on...

oh, I forgot. She is now accusing me of being Jekyll and Hyde.

Hi Sweetpea, She claims it's me messing with her mind and that she has so many reasons to dislike me. Like this morning she was off to the doctors. I think she wants her meds dose increased coz it's not helping her sleep or the nightmares. I came down too take my daughter to school and I asked...

Hi back again. Well she has an appointment with a psychiatrist on 31 July. I tried to speak to the assessing psychiatric nurse to find out what's going on but they told me nothing. Things here at home are getting worse as many of you had predicted. Every time we speak it ends up as an argument...

Thanks Scout.

Hi I'm back. Just an update, I think my wife has Borderline tendencies. From the info I've researched, she is Splitting, has "Painted me Black". Which would explain, The sudden change of personality. I've read that Borderline and C-PTSD are often comorbid with each other. Well the house is on...

Thanks to Kefira and Stillstanding for your words, The problem I've got is I don't know what my wife has. She has been diagnosed with extreme c-ptsd. She wants to get on with her life alone with my daughter. She said that if the feelings come back she will find me. She said I've pushed her away...

Hi Still standing, Thanks for you kind words. I hope and pray every day that me and my daughter will make it. I just don't understand my wife. One day she is so in love then bang she doesn't like me overnight. Has anyone else out there experienced anything like this?

Thanks again Scout, you make sense. I just don't understand if this is PTSD or what. She says she can't deal with me right now. I had no answers no discussion and all explanations don't make sense.

Hi Scout, Thanks for the straight talking. Financially we've reached the end and the house must be sold. We can't afford a divorce. I know pretty much the relationship is over, well it seems it is for her. My problems are my daughter and our future together. The financial crap this has caused.

I don't know her anymore. The person I knew was kind and I thought she loved me. I no longer feel I trust her. She says that she wants to separate and wait how she feels in time. Yet I also feel like she is just toying with me

Here we go again. I'm really out of my depths here. I'm not sure if it's PTSD that's driving my wife or what. So as from yesterday she wants to stay married, live apart. See where we are after she starts therapy. If the feelings come back we're still married. If they don't then we get divorced...

Hi Scout, The reasoning for selling the house is down to finances. Since PTSD has arrived she has been with-holding some financial support and it would be impossible for me to find somewhere else to live and maintain the house. So selling the house makes sense. I did offer her that she could...

Hi, Today my lovely wife discloses that we might not have to divorce but we should still separate. Sell house live separate lives and see if her feelings are different. If things don't change we can go for divorce later. No offers of hope and I loose my assets. Not sure what to do.

Hi Sweetpea, Thanks for you your advice and kind words. I can take the abuse, I can try to avoid arguments, keep my mouth shut. Yes I realise it's the PYSD I love my wife dearly and want to help her get better. She has called time on the relationship, she wants a divorce. Her family are toxic as...

Thanks Scout, you words are encouraging and kind. Yes my wife is enmeshed with her family. She has often complained in the past that they didn't seem to want her to find happiness. She was happy with me but they are very good at manipulating her. I also believe her abusive ex might have...

Oh sorry to rant on I've just been informed that I am jealous of my wife's children and I don't want them to have contact with her. I make them uncomfortable when they visit and I don't like that they speak on the phone with her. That's because on a couple of occasions I have in the past...