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We have decided to be friends and it works out perfectly. I am glad to have him in my life and we have become really good friends. :-)

So he came back...super excited. we have been talking for almost a week now. Everything perfect and right where we left off. We made plans to see each other next weekend, I am not sure what will happen between then and now but we have talked non stop for almost a week. He seems really tired and...

Last time we talked he was very angry with me for pushing that was sometime early June. 07/17-I talked to him today, just for a short time and it was nice, he said he needed to hear what I said. He said he was sorry and said he does not think he can ever love anyone. He talked to me and knows I...

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That would be amazing and that is what they should do. There is no help for coming home. I wish there was something I could do. I will not give up hope that there is help and guidance for everyone coming home. That is the right thing to do.

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I also want to add women, moms, daughters.... I did not mean to leave everyone out. What these loving people do for our country and have to come home to deal with is so heartbreaking I just hope one day there is help and an answer. Thank you everyone!!!!

@DharmaGirl I know I did not respond to you last message and I appreciate you being there. I am not giving up on him as a person, I will continue to hope he gets the help he needs so he can raise his beautiful children and maybe eventually be happy in love. It is a shame these soldiers, men...

@tiredtexan I am sorry you have to go through all of that. Our relationship we had for the short time was beautiful. I know he will not come back, I am not saying that is a good or bad thing, I wish his words would have been true. He really did say some amazing things, but the one little thing...

I appreciate all the advice, I came here to understand and I will take everything I learned and appreciate it. If he talks to me again I will be more understanding and if he doesn't I am glad I came here. I wish I had known earlier and I know now what I need to and there is a reason for it. I...

I never said he was perfect, I said he was perfect for me....he led all of the conversations. No one is perfect we all know this. There is someone that is perfect for you and yes it takes work doesn't mean they are not perfect for you. I didnt scare him off, something else did, however how I...

I really felt strongly for him, this was not infatuation. This was a little deeper than that. I cannot explain it just was. I agree love takes time, but when you feel something special that doesn't come along everyday. This was special. If he doesn't come back, I will be ok, I just didn't...

I never said I love this man, I do care very very much and things were very deep... I feel I could have eventually fell for him in every way.

@Sighs YES, there is proof. He is a disabled Vet and there is proof for sure.

Phil Collins-You'll Be In My Heart-I heard this song playing in my daughters room a few moments ago, she is 16, how ironic- I said what song is that and who is singing it and she says I don't know mom. She looked on her phone and said who it was......well I listened and this song is someone...

I am sorry, I wish I knew what to say to make it better, I always wish I knew the right things to say. I miss him. I am doing me, but I still miss him. I piece of my heart is missing.......

I know no one is perfect, he is perfect for me!

@Linzee you made me hopeful, smile, smile again and cry all in your message. I do feel like we all have loheve for the same person, I know I said this before. I did not realize so many others were going through this and it makes me feel better to have a place where you can go for comfort, advice...

How long have you been dating? It does help to come here and talk about it, at least for me. It is a roller coaster ride for sure. If he never reaches out to me again there was a reason he came into my life for just a short time. I never want to give up and I know how frustrating it is because...

He is still not speaking to me, so I have not been able to talk with him about any of this. if I could only share what was exchanged between us, it was the most beautiful things ever said. He told me he had PTSD but we never discussed anything further and I didn't really understand it until...

I am really learning a lot, about myself and about PTSD, I am in this for sure and everyday I get stronger so when he is ready I can be there in the way that is needed for him. I just hope I did not make the mistake of not understanding PTSD and him not talking about it that I pushed him further...

I appreciate you taking time to respond to me, I am not sure what you mean by I called him out, can you explain, I would like to know if he comes back what I need to do:) you said that was very strong just not sure what part. Thank you!

@Linzee you gave me hope and I am learning patience. I am doing my thing and when I hear from him there will be no stress on my side, I will just be there for him. Sometimes reading these posts I feel like we are all dating the same person. In a way we are....someone so special that has touched...

Your post made me so happy, I am happy to hear this. I hope mine comes back. It has been 9 days, I know how he felt and it was so good. I just hope he knows I am here.

Thank you, how is educating myself and asking questions and trying to find support and advice not healthy, I have 3 beautiful kids and a great job, I am not letting this affect my life. I am not depressed and I still go about my daily life:) I would like to continue whatever I can with this man...