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@23YearsApart Your welcome. I wish my fiance had your mindset to learn more about this disease and would try to see that I am a good person. But so far I get nothing other than no I won't see you and we can't be together and I don't think you'll ever change. But still that doesn't stop me. I...

Mt personal opinion is that when you love someone, show them. Especially if you and that person were something very special at one point and time. I don't believe in giving up. However I have let her go. And my biggest fear is she won't come back. But I hope and pray and continue all my therapy...

Keifer, you know my ex fiance had once told me to never contact her again. My story isn't like this one. I was the one who inflicted so much pain to her. Even tho I love her so deeply I still hurt her. Words can never describe the pain I am going through. However I am in ongoing therapy and...

Nobody ever wants to let go of the person they love. However I think if you truly love someone and you don't want to lose that, you can do more than just quit. There's couple's therapy there's ways to get to know where the problem is so that you can face it and squash it. Or you can let it...

So who has the PTSD here you or him?? And I have to be honest I've read a number of these responses and I have to admit I'm a little disappointed. Since when was the answer to everything giving up and moving on? I read one thing on here I agreed with. Maybe you don't have to give up, but take a...

Stay strong. Do you have a spouse or significant other? If so I strongly recommend you work on yourself as hard as you can!! As these PTSD issue's can weigh heavy on a relationship. I know trust me. Count your blessings and what matters to you. I've learned to do things that makes you happy...

@Snow_angel Luckily I went back over to her house today. She had sent me some texts of questions last night I couldn't really understand. So I went over and we had a pretty good talk. We talked for about an hr and half close to two hrs. She still says she doesn't know if she can ever be with me...

So I let her go today. Was hoping for a better Visit but now I must say positive and hope and pray she misses me while we're no longer in communication. My heart was is and forever be hers. This PTSD shit is no joke! The anxiety that it gives. I've never had anxiety before. I honestly feel I am...

When anger comes out or you feel it coming on you HAVE to stop and take a minute to breath amd focus on why your really getting angry. I have one of the worst anger issue's. But I've learned to control it. And this site will definitely help. Its helped me so much.

Sorry had some spelling errors. Anyway be there for him to an extent. Don't be all over him. He needs to realize he needs to this for him before he can be good for anyone else like you

Not at all. We all need a lil more education inthese types of issues. And if we ddidn't care non of us would be here trying to get a better idea of why and what's going on

@bell And that's what I'm going to do. Thank you for that. That's exactly what I'm going to do... Really thank you for that. Gives me hope. Even if it doesn't happen

Oh I will. Faith and prayer that one day she will see my changes and accomplishments and that she'll miss me. Till then focused on me and my health. But I want to say good bye to her in person. But she wants me to email her!?!

And yes I think you were misunderstood. I commented about it below.

You need to talk about it. Figure out why or what caused him to say those things. You need to honestly ask yourself if you cam forgive him for saying those things to you. And you ALWAYS need to be yourself. Dont be someone your not. You need him to love YOU for YOU. Not who he imagined you are

And there's no hope she's told me that and she just told me agaim there is no chance for us. I blame myself. I should have let her breath when she asked and not text or called or took her a long stem rose everyday.

So why does my therapist say that PTSD does cause this? To send pics and text people. Why do books say its caused by it? And why are so many people on this website suffering from the same complications I did in their relationship with PTSD? Thank you for the back pat and I'm not trying to be...

I've been out of the military since 2008 so yes my PTSD is slightly delayed. Cause its never been this bad.

I never physically cheated. PTSD does cause you to talk to other people the way I did. AndI'm not fully ggetting you by her amd a friend sleeping with each other as working out? Whay do you mean? PTSD is the issue here. Not just combat PTSD but things on my childhood as well. Things such as...

PTSD isn't wine. It only gets worse as time goes on. I've done awful horrible things to my fiance. I've lied about the most retarded things. Lied about family about money about work about women about my age! I never physically cheated on her but i did talk to and send inappropriate pics of...

Well then your first step is to one apologise for saying things in THE WAY you did. But then say why you felt them and what caused them. One thing I learned from my fiance is that you need to communicate so that these things don't get bottled up cause well, what happens to a volcano? It holds...

Trust me I wish I could take it all away too. Suggestions... Well for starters get him on this website to talk to people who can relate to how hr feels. He needs to really stop doing things that are going to make him feel worse. And if he does want to drink he needs to do so where he won't have...

A lot of the times when you involve alcohol a lot of things come out that you didn't want to. However you need to identify if these were results of anger and alcohol or true feelings bottling up inside you? And the alcohol gave you the guts to express them.

Not generally. A sufferer acts and reacts. So for example you ignored his text. He must of been having a bad day. Which your ignore caused a reaction. This isn't your fault tho. You see in PTSD we sufferers react in a way we react in a way we only know how. And that's full on attack mode the...

You don't necessarily have to be there with him physically but let him know that he needs to do it alone but that you still are there. And a text a day can seriously help the pain go away. I wish that I can just get one text that said good night or morning. That would give me more strength to...