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Hmm. Well, from experience, holding on to these things breeds anger and hate. Certainly knowing why does help because then we at least know the reason. Now, the key is forgiving but we need not forget. Whether you believe in God or another being, the pain inside is terrible we never want it, and...

Well, everyone has something in common here. It's easier to be around people who are understanding of another's condition and people who are generally more kind because they been through stuff themselves. I say embrace it, as these events and pain help shape and mold us. I believe there's...

I have found that I, myself have a problem expressing emotions and wants. Like I've been desensitized to myself in a way(does that make sense?) It annoys me. Like I don't really have a preference in my head and I don't really know what I want :/

*Her withdrawing got better as we got closer and now I notice it only when there is obviously something that came up and is bothering her Mostly she functions normal(goofy, joking, sweet) but there's no denying the other parts mixed in

I'm sorry to hear about that :( I've given it thought these past couple days. I can see points where you would be right, though I'm reluctant to bring myself through counseling again. It's just a pride thing I guess, I've always had trouble accepting help(which is why when I was younger I would...

Now, probably one of the final things for this thread. I would presume that maybe getting her to this site or things similar might be good for her? Maybe if she could talk to people who may share similar experiences or at the least just people who both have battled PTSD and overcome it and the...

And also something to ask about..it hasn't happened when we were together but she has told me about seizures she starting getting after physical trauma to the head from her ex. She used to get them frequently but since we met they've decreased and she's been without incident for a long period...

As far as my needs..well, generally they're met but in conversation sometimes she doesn't seem to want to hear about my day or when she's on the phone she won't be really paying attention. That's my thing, I need company, when she does that it's more of a rude gesture and seemingly a little...

And to add, am I doing too much being as nice and exceptionally patient with her? I give her slack to let out feelings and give her room..is it wrong to always put her first, as I do love her but mainly because..well you know. Could it be that she wants the attention and I keep feeding it and...

To Solara, I do my best to give her tips on things that I've dealt with, and with some things that people I've known have dealt with. Most certainly, though, I agree you can't depend on others. I learned that with depression, with things as such you do need professional help, it's imperative to...

While I could certainly recommend her to counseling, I don't believe it would really do any good unfortunately as she can be quite stubborn. It'll be easier once I can be there and help her along, having someone she trusts with her might make her feel easier about it. She does however need some...

She isn't seeing one now, she has her older brother she talks with about most things. She hasn't seen one in I would have to say a while before we started talking. This is also the first real relationship she's had, as past relations with guys have been more of a need for attention and she used...