Thanks for your encouraging message. I have been dealing with mixed feeling the past 2 weeks and still trying to find my way out. I miss him a lot and at the same time, I feel like my trauma is now twofold. He wanted to let me go by "mistreating" me which I was traumatized as a result, now I...
thanks, i am still processing with my regret and guilt. I feel bad for misunderstanding him despite, rationally, i know it's reasonable for me to misunderstand, i don't really know what is the right mindset to process it...
Thanks, I happened to have moved out to my country the day before i found out this happened. it is helpful that i am not in where we used to share memories. i am still devastated. I feel like I am just an outsider even after all these.
thanks - i wasn't able to attend as i only found out about...
thanks for sharing, he has had a diagnosis from the doctor. What were the worst symptoms for you before you got it cured?
I am sorry you are having these. how long have you been suffering with it?
Thank you all for your contribution in responses. I was aware it seems not uncommon to see people who suffer ptsd also suffer neuropathy, as my sufferer has been suffering for both. But after reading your response, I think it could be due to association with military/combat experiences?
my...
thank you for your sharing. the illness he is encountering is not curable but could be improved with right treatment, but I am so afraid I would lose him and never see him again. I know he is on treatment but I don't get an update, anything can be appropriate to ask in this situation?
thanks for sharing. I am sure it hasn't been easy for you. I can understand why he acts like this but sometimes I do feel unloved even he said he does because his actions dont match with his words. I think this is one of the things that im confused about whether to stay around or not.
when I...
thanks all for your reply. i was on holiday and only get to reply now. the break helps.
i have already got out of the relationship, the feeling of being mistreated is what actually holding me up but the holiday break has helped me
thanks Sam - sending love over too. it's never easy! I am...
It’s no doubt a mysterious process. The inability to fully differentiate the doubt of whether I have been used that he never truly loved me or it’s the symptoms speaking has made it difficult to move on
Hi all, I have posted a thread about my story as someone who has been ghosted by an ex partner with cptsd. it has been better but I am still not able to completely move on from the hurtful experiences and get over the feeling of being mistreated even after months. Hoping to get some help in...
@southwest I share similar experiences with you. It's not easy and I am still learning how to move on while I still love him deeply. But just know you aren't alone.
and sorry to interrupt your post - I have a question that I would like to ask @RachelBigby, my ex has ghosted me when I was in...
still no contact and I've been trying to move on but everything is still haunting me that I wake up with a palpitating heart every morning.
I am sorry for your past, I hope you will find a way to heal too
Hi everyone, I am back here again seeking support for myself.
I realized there was an unresolved issue in my relationship with my now ex partner and that has actually traumatized me.
I started to experience difficulty in my sleep, wake up with panic, feeling lost in life direction and i have...
After I sent the message, he didn't acknowledge anything but instead just sent me a xmas greeting message. I am confused if I am dealing with someone being affected by PTSD symptoms or someone who could've become a jerk. im moving on but it still bothers me. Can anybody help please?
Thank you, it's hard and I wanted to be his supporter but it turned out, probably, we aren't compatible. I am still trying to process my own emotions, lots of mixed emotions but I believe time will heal.
and thank you everyone for being a great support and providing your perspectives over the...
I agree with you that partner with PTSD cannot always fulfill our need. I was in hospital and he was still ghosting me. I don’t know if I should still apply this to view
I agree with you that partner with PTSD cannot always fulfill our needs. However I was ended up in hospital for days and he...
Thank you for your reply Freida. My therapist told me to learn to look after my own feeling first. I think I am trying to accept the fact that thing isnt working between us.
thanks Sweetpea, i agree that i should give him space but i think i have given enough space to-date that i have neglected...