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    Relationship He has passed away without saying goodbye...

    Thanks for your encouraging message. I have been dealing with mixed feeling the past 2 weeks and still trying to find my way out. I miss him a lot and at the same time, I feel like my trauma is now twofold. He wanted to let me go by "mistreating" me which I was traumatized as a result, now I...
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    Relationship He has passed away without saying goodbye...

    thanks, i am still processing with my regret and guilt. I feel bad for misunderstanding him despite, rationally, i know it's reasonable for me to misunderstand, i don't really know what is the right mindset to process it...
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    Relationship He has passed away without saying goodbye...

    Thanks, I happened to have moved out to my country the day before i found out this happened. it is helpful that i am not in where we used to share memories. i am still devastated. I feel like I am just an outsider even after all these. thanks - i wasn't able to attend as i only found out about...
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    Relationship He has passed away without saying goodbye...

    I am heartbroken....I don't know how to cope.
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    General Does any sufferer have experience of neuropathy?

    thanks for sharing, he has had a diagnosis from the doctor. What were the worst symptoms for you before you got it cured? I am sorry you are having these. how long have you been suffering with it?
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    General Does any sufferer have experience of neuropathy?

    Thank you all for your contribution in responses. I was aware it seems not uncommon to see people who suffer ptsd also suffer neuropathy, as my sufferer has been suffering for both. But after reading your response, I think it could be due to association with military/combat experiences? my...
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    General Does any sufferer have experience of neuropathy?

    Can anyone share how it is like and if there is anything to do with trauma?
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    thank you for your sharing. the illness he is encountering is not curable but could be improved with right treatment, but I am so afraid I would lose him and never see him again. I know he is on treatment but I don't get an update, anything can be appropriate to ask in this situation?
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    thanks for sharing. I am sure it hasn't been easy for you. I can understand why he acts like this but sometimes I do feel unloved even he said he does because his actions dont match with his words. I think this is one of the things that im confused about whether to stay around or not. when I...
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    he finally admitted he has been pushing me away because he is severely ill but he is still not willing to let me in...I dont know what I can do...
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    I am glad you managed to give yourself a closure. I hope you have also found healing through it
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    thanks all for your reply. i was on holiday and only get to reply now. the break helps. i have already got out of the relationship, the feeling of being mistreated is what actually holding me up but the holiday break has helped me thanks Sam - sending love over too. it's never easy! I am...
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    How to make a balance when I still have empathy towards him but feeling mistreated at the same time while moving on.
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    It’s no doubt a mysterious process. The inability to fully differentiate the doubt of whether I have been used that he never truly loved me or it’s the symptoms speaking has made it difficult to move on
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    Relationship it's still very difficult to move on

    Hi all, I have posted a thread about my story as someone who has been ghosted by an ex partner with cptsd. it has been better but I am still not able to completely move on from the hurtful experiences and get over the feeling of being mistreated even after months. Hoping to get some help in...
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    General Pretty depressed and venting

    @southwest I share similar experiences with you. It's not easy and I am still learning how to move on while I still love him deeply. But just know you aren't alone. and sorry to interrupt your post - I have a question that I would like to ask @RachelBigby, my ex has ghosted me when I was in...
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    still no contact and I've been trying to move on but everything is still haunting me that I wake up with a palpitating heart every morning. I am sorry for your past, I hope you will find a way to heal too
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    I am sorry for what you have been through, its never easy. And yes i do have those fear and insecurity which developed from my childhood.
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    Hi everyone, I am back here again seeking support for myself. I realized there was an unresolved issue in my relationship with my now ex partner and that has actually traumatized me. I started to experience difficulty in my sleep, wake up with panic, feeling lost in life direction and i have...
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    thank you all for your reply. it helps relieving when my empathy is overloaded and kill any false hope.
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    After I sent the message, he didn't acknowledge anything but instead just sent me a xmas greeting message. I am confused if I am dealing with someone being affected by PTSD symptoms or someone who could've become a jerk. im moving on but it still bothers me. Can anybody help please?
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    Thank you, it's hard and I wanted to be his supporter but it turned out, probably, we aren't compatible. I am still trying to process my own emotions, lots of mixed emotions but I believe time will heal. and thank you everyone for being a great support and providing your perspectives over the...
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    thank you all for your responses. I have decided to move on and ended the relationship (one-sided) since he is still ghosting.
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    I agree with you that partner with PTSD cannot always fulfill our need. I was in hospital and he was still ghosting me. I don’t know if I should still apply this to view I agree with you that partner with PTSD cannot always fulfill our needs. However I was ended up in hospital for days and he...
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    Relationship My partner has been isolating himself - what is the best way to ask about it?

    Thank you for your reply Freida. My therapist told me to learn to look after my own feeling first. I think I am trying to accept the fact that thing isnt working between us. thanks Sweetpea, i agree that i should give him space but i think i have given enough space to-date that i have neglected...
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