Recent content by Omi81

I never said I disagree, I am here to get help and take the feedback and constructive criticism. I just am not used to someone being so blunt, granted, I appreciate it. I am thankful for you guys remarks and replies as they are helpful. I appreciate all of time and knowledge on this topic. I...

Thanx bec. I only said that I was willing to stay around because I've read that the first step for someone to get help is admitting that they need the help first. Unless I misunderstood. I say its unhealthy due to our constant arguing and if we were to seperate that should come to an end or at...

Thank you Anchor and Nicolette. I appreciate the feedback. I will try to encourage the reads, and am willing to be direct in telling him/suggesting therapy. I will give this a shot. I have told him he needs help, in so many words, his reply is that he knows what he needs to do and it doesn't...

Hi everyone, My boyfriend and I have been goin through ups and downs these past couple of weeks trying to decide whether or not this relationship is going to work. We have been arguing a lot lately and decided to take some space apart from one another. I have been talking to him about the...

Thanx Anchor, I dont mind that you "write so much." Its actually very insightful and helpful. I will look into some readings, although I feel as if I am at my wits end.

Thank you for you reply Frankie. You hit the nail on the head when you said that you think that "i didn't mean it that way." I sure didn't and I am really embarrassed as to how I was percieved. This was more about my likes in general. I mentioned being complimented as ONE of the things, but not...

Thank you Anchor, I am sorry about what you went through, although I have not been physically abused, some of what you explained does fit in to my current situation. I too find myself giving in to a lot of his "likes" and am starting to feel like i'm losing myself. The constant arguing between...

First i'd like to apologize to every sufferer and/or carer who i've offended by the title and content of this thread. I was not aware how I could have been percieved and realized that I was misunderstood due to my poor choice of words. I am now aware of how the word "simple" could be offensive...

Hello all, I am questioning whether or not it is common for a sufferer(iraq vet) to be so simple in his likes and dislikes? I might seem shallow and insensitive,but I am far from that. I do take pride in who I am, how I dress, feeling and looking pretty/sexy for my man. As of late, as I'm...

Thank you all. As I read and took it all in, I agree that I need to take care of myself first. I am feeling like a rock in a hard place because he just won't let go, and this sounds like the opposite to how other sufferers react. I will continue reading and learning, I appreciate all of your...

Hi everyone, I am new to this,and thank you all in advance. My boyfriend (iraq vet) and i have been together for almost 3months. I have known him for over a year,but just started dating. He hasnt had a job,school or any extra curricular activities since before I started to date him. When we...