Recent content by Rebecca12

I agree that it's questionable that he still comes to your house. I agree with @KwanYingirl, setting up come concrete boundaries could be a huge help to your emotional well-being. You know what's best for you, trust your instincts.

And it continues...He refuses to return my things now after I've returned his. The only way I'll get them back is if I go to his house while he's there, tonight. A mutual best friend of ours has talked with him and said to me that I need to sit down and give him a chance to explain, but I'm...

@mrsps That's what he says to me all the time, but this is the first he's done something that he knew would push me away. We've gone back and forth for months, and I've always fought for him. This time his actions sabotaged the relationship and not just his words. He knows what he did was wrong...

What you're going through sounds so difficult. I just left a relationship we're the same thing happened. He was talking to his ex-wife behind my back, sharing things with her because she 'understood' while I wouldn't hear from him for days at a time. Eventually something has got to give. What...

I just have a quick question. Is it normal for sufferers to sabotage their relationships? I recently separated from the sufferer, and I've been told by many people that sabotaging the relationships of people he's closest to is a part of PTSD. I've completely cut ties with him because what he...

Thank you all for the support, but I thought I'd let everyone know that I've just broken it off with him. I found out that he was turning to his ex-wife(who's in a very committed relationship) for support because she understands him and I'm too good of a person too be taken down by him. His...

I didn't think it could get worse, but i was wrong. I previously posted about my sufferer's struggle, and got some great advice from everyone. I've opened up communication with him without getting angry, and it seemed to help a tiny bit. Recently, we had a great weekend together. Then, huge...

@Sighs I went/am currently going through that same situation. What I've come to realize is that you have to make yourself a priority. You can't sit around waiting for the ball to drop: go out (with or without him), reconnect with friends, do things that make you happy. It's so easy to get caught...

Thank you everyone! Sorry it's taken me so long to get back, but the last few weeks have been busy to say the least. I truly appreciate the time you all have put in to give me some advice. If only we could live in a world that's black and white :)

I'm new here, but have been a lurker for a while. Everyone's stories and experiences have really helped guide me in my relationship with my sufferer. Recently, I haven't been as strong, and thought that maybe posting here would help. I've been dating my sufferer for almost 2 years, the first...