Recent content by Sunshine71

Thanks Arfie - and of course sorry to hear this.... and I get it after being with hubbie all these years,.... I wonder if I have put things down to PTSD - maybe we both have however there could be other issues too that perhaps can be addressed. Wishing you all the very best xx

Thanks StarChild.... I tend to push the out of mind and even minutes after I cant think straight - however this is even part of it... saying things to get you to think it didnt happen or want as you said! I may say something - trying to be funny ... trying to be more connected... even more...

Hi all I haven't been here for a while...... Just wondering your thoughts ...... I have been with my hubbie for 35 years! We met in our late teens.... he was a great guy.... however I am wondering if some of the things I equated to PTSD are actually him being a narcissist.... and where does...

Thank you so much for this and I am sorry I didn't come back sooner to the forum - a lot on the go this end - as always! And I wanted to say he "starts the ball rolling" as such from time to time when I am asleep - not more than this. I feel like I am defending his actions....! However I didn't...

We have just become intimate again. I think we have had sex 5 times or so in the past 18 years. This was actually while I was asleep too…. I got the courage to bring up sex again recently and of course it caused a big upset. (It ended up not being part of our lives as he would have a flashback...

I am back. Its been some years since I posted. I thought things were getting better however everything seems broken. Why is it so hard to be a family? Me, hubbie and our son? Its easier for us to be each be alone or just 2 of us. We went away for a few days and I do not stop working – its...

He just wont xx

I don't know what I would do without my work - I immerse myself in this to the point that I dont know what to do if I am not working!! I dont have friends really however I feel my clients are my friends. I do hope you can find something or some people xx

Thank you so much for your kind reply and honesty - I am so happy to read things are working out much better for you both and that EMDR helped - my hubbie was about to try this many years however it didnt go ahead for various reasons.... this may be something to re consider if he gets support...

Hahaha! At least it will keep us fit while venting anger! :) x Thank you - I really appreciate this reply x 😅 Thank you so much for your kind reply -- hubbie had therapy and it really just made everything worse - the thing that helps is getting out, working and not going through it all...

Thank you for your kind reply and honesty Sweetpea xx Thank you so much and I had no idea about the above..... I will check out that feature as well xx Thank you so much for your kind reply - and you are quite right of course - it doesn't matter about other people as such .... however just...

Hi all Any people in a long term relationships with their PTSD partner? Do you still have sex? I met my hubbie in 1990 - the car accident happened perhaps that year too..... All was fine until around 16 years ago when our son was born. We have hardly had sex since then - and I can not remember...

My heart broke reading this - how amazing of you to post here to find help. You must go to the police. He must not be able to do this again. xx

It has been ages since I posted lovely people. I do hope you are all doing well. So........ On Saturday we went out for a day - we drove for an hour to go to a little place with what is now our favourite restaurant...... we were launching in the car and our teenage son was in the back...

Hi fellow PTSD supporters I haven't posted for a long time. I am based in the UK.... Well lockdown stopped my husbands work - he is a freelance photographer.... he got some government support and focused on doing things in the house and fitness - which is great... he lost 4 stone and felt...