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A friend on the site here told me I ought to read your post; that you and I might have similar stories and that I might relate. Was she ever spot on. Bankruptcy, homeless(not without shelter)- it's 0 here tonight, wife living with daughter and earning zilch, losing house, and everything on...

And, yes, oftentimes I too project things will turn out much worse than they really do. Today I try to go in to these situations and plan only my action, not the outcome. When I leave that up to providence, it usually comes out better than I expect.

Remember to stand firm and stand up for yourself. It sounds like your subordinate is a bully and is playing games. Part of that personality type requires that she take the offensive. I don't mean to disturb you, just hopefully words of wisdom so you don't let down your guard. With bullies...

Thanks for posting. People are so amazing. Have you ever seen "Castaway", with Tom Hanks? I really wonder why he ever left the island. :arghh; I hope you're home and warm and settled in with some hot tea this evening.

I'm in Lostforgottensoul's camp. You were trained and expected as a youth to submit. That was what "your" programming dictated that you do, until you learned otherwise. It was not your fault. And it was not your fault for letting it continue. Once you learned enough about it, that it was wrong...

You need :hug:'s. Lot's of them....... :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:........ I'm sending prayers for strength and healing.

You have the vocabulary and maturity of one much older than 14. I don't doubt the authenticity of what you say one bit, but your style and wisdom would indicate one of greater age than 14. There is a price for not educating yourself, if that be the case, but more often than not we can not learn...

Be there for your daughter. That's the most important thing. It sounds like you always have been. It's a delicate process and she's the one that is ultimately gonna have to decide to face her demons. Love and support. Love and support. Great healers. Repeat as needed. The crisis was raging...

16personalities.com/infj-personality for those who aren't familiar with what this refers to. Looks like a very good place to research more on this. Could be very pertinent to personal welfare and recovery. Especially if you have characteristics of this type personality. These attributes can...

Yes. Absolutely yes. I believe you can make a conscious choice to trust, to care, and to deal with the cards you have been dealt with. The choice part is a "YES", an absolute. The first part of any journey begins with what? The first step. One step only. That's all. And that is making the...

I have spent the last 35 years in recovery, 28 of them clean. As I cleaned up and became less dependent upon drugs and alcohol to fulfill my life I grew beyond the superficial needs and wants that directed my life in addiction. Key here is "I". I grew. I needed to. It was the best thing...

Learning to trust after trauma is not simple or quick. Perhaps be more patient with yourself. The soul has been wounded deep, and the path to trust can be long and tedious, for good reason. Our brain is very protective of ourselves, especially once we're so deeply hurt. The rewards are there...

Awesome! Some of the best news I've heard in a long time. :joyful::) I'm smiling on the outside imagining the goings on with the snl skit and smiling deeply on the inside sensing you have some comfort in your new surroundings. It is so long overdue. You've given me great encouragement to keep...

I could probably write for days on this topic. Essentially, what I would say, has already been spoken. I've kept my insane job for another year. 3 trips to urgent care. 4 trips to emergency room. One surgery. Bankruptcy. Homeless since June. 20 doctor visits. Partial disability. Depression...

Thank you. I am simply seconding those wishes here and adding my own hopes that to all it is a better year than last and may you find healing and serenity among your gifts this year. Best wishes. And thank you all.

There are many great posts on this thread. I just wanted to let Beautifulness know I am supportive and hope things are improving, for you and for others here. Take time for yourself and the kids too, and be strong. Prayers and thoughts for healing.

Hi Lionheart........ You have my utmost condolences. About 4 years ago my 87 year old mother started a process of heart attacks and strokes. Shortly after she passed away peacefully in hospice care. I was her only living close family. We had discussed and prepared many times over the years...

I'm sorry. I didn't have time to read all the posts. But I can tell you that at any given moment, any time, any where, you can press the restart button. It doesn't erase the past, but it allows you to move forward without the baggage of guilt and everything else. It's not easy to do or to...

I wish for you much happiness and success. You have done great. Each and every day that is a step forward is a great accomplishment. May you have many more! Thank you for the good news.

Welcome. Home to see you around. Much positive herein.

Thinking of you much today. Thinking of you. :hug:

Greetings. I am so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine. You show incredible incredible strength. Prayers for you and that the spark of happiness finds a moment this season to ignite, much like the lights on your Christmas tree. Thank you Medic and Angelkeeper for your words.

I work in a terminally toxic environment. We've had people die in the workplace. Two on my crew have committed suicide. One died of a fatal drug overdose. Many have been crippled with what our employer calls "pre-existing conditions". I have a federal court order to cease and desist all forms of...

Maybe it's cause you're happy. Sounds like you are doing great things with your time and your life. Keep it simple. Enjoy what you are doing. I think that's great. Great post. Thank you. Enjoy your kitten and your boyfriend. I'd probably keep the kitten for sure.....:)

P.S. Killer avatar. Totally awesome!!