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Great start to your diary. :)

He has a lot of emotions going on inside. Emotions that are hard to control. Which in itself can be scary. If anyone is on edge, they snap at everything. Stress attack you mentally and physically. There a lot of stuff going on inside him. Space is a gift to you both. Keeps you both safe from...

One good thing, he won’t be around for your Birthday. You will be able to enjoy it. Do whatever you would like. Happy Birthday :)

Hi welcome to the forum :)

Paralyzed by NF

@bellbird, thank you for your post. It’s nice to feel seen. :)

Hi welcome to the forum. Is your SO in therapy at all. Seems like he needs some help on his symptoms.

You did what you needed. I thing I would say to try is running your hands under cold water, and just keep breathing. Gentle hugs it you except.

@EveHarrington well said :)

Right back at ya :hug:

Hello, welcome to the forum :)

Welcome to the forum, I’m glad your seeking help and support. You will find a lot of kind and supportive people here. I hope you are also having a good day.

You are unique. -Your unique in how you feel - Your unique in how you see the world around you. - Your unique in how you handle life experiences. - Your unique in how you love others around you. -Your unique in how you support others here. -Your unique in your sense of humour. -Your unique in...

I’m not on Disability myself. But I’ve had been around people who cut up or look down on stay at home mothers. Which I was. Next time she starts mouthing off, hand her your shoes, tell her to walk in them for a week, day. Then ask her why she on Disability. Or just save your proof and report her...

@RN-Loving-A-Vet I hope you don’t take this the wrong way. I just want to respond in a different point of view. Your Vet has asked for some time apart to get treatment and his symptoms under control. He has done that to protect you, him and the relationship. He texts, FaceTimes you, tells you...

Please take some time and do self care.

I understand your chronic pain. Have you thought of trying Reiki or acupuncture? Moving the energy in your body.

I can understand your heartbreak and send you hugs if you except :hug:

Please know, I don’t want you to feel it’s ok or except, that is ok to cheat because he has PTSD. Many here will tell you. Cheating is not a PTSD symptom, it’s a choice. A very painful one for you. I’m so sorry your hurting.

He may not be thinking clearly, but that’s not a pass on cheating on you. You don’t deserve to be treated this way.

Let’s say he lied to you about the other woman. He used that as a way to end the relationship. Why? Because he is starting treatment and doesn’t have to ability to but in a relationship. All his focus has to be on his treatment. He can’t give himself 100% if he’s worried about you or feeling...

If he didn’t have PTSD would you be ok with his behaviour and how he treated you?

Hi @Happyplace76 , welcome to the forum :) sorry you have been going through so much lately. I hope you look around the forum. I’m glad you found us for support.

@MEF welcome to the forum. I’m sorry your hurting and confused. I know you don’t understand his choice or his behaviour. PTSD doesn’t make you cheat. He chose to cheat, he got in contact with her. You deserve to be treated with respect and valued. He’s not doing that. I really feel you should...

Hi @Brin, welcome to the forum. I hope you read around the forum on both sides. Also read about the stress cup. He seems he has a lot of stress right now, with work, Anniversary’s and a new marriage. He seems symptomatic by your dissipation. Unless he is willing to work on himself, this is...