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@joeylittle thankyou for your feedback I can understand where your coming from its good to know this because it helps me. I find he does not get agitated at me when I ask...I think it may be more that it stresses him knowing that i'm worrying about him though because I do have Generalised...

@brightonguy I've been in a very similar situation and have just recently set boundaries....may I ask? does your GF have jumpiness if you get close to her? has anyone experienced this at all?

@Numbalina That would be me as the supporter yes :).... I am very proud of myself im really starting to understand it so much that this weekend when we saw each other I was so patient and didn't even cry. I think as a supporter you go through stages of grief.... in these...

@Numbalina ...so very proud of you the strength you have and he has Is amazing.....just take day my day I'm giving a lot right now and not getting much back but my story is very different... I'm glad you went after him and found a direction...I just hope that happens for me. I've had my fair...

Hi Guys, My partner has combat PTSD seeking some treatment his in therapy twice a week no medications and is still currently working as a trainer in the RAAF base. I thought I may share with you my story over the weekend just gone the 14th of Feb to the 16th of Feb. (apologies for the...

I actually dont know what to write back between @Lemontree @Kaia and @TreeHugger..i do appreciate all the input anyway but i do like a kind place to go and it is the reason i come on here for support, :) and to speak to all you lovely ppl around the world...i think everyone means well and just...

@TreeHugger There is a window but cannot see into it And its frosted. Havent asked him as he has not been in a good place lately im just curious really and seeing if anyone has noticed this before.

I have a question ...my partner has combat PTSD ive often seen him in the bathroom and the lights have been turned off whilst having a shower...he also cleans alot and hates clutter....can a sufferer or supporter please explain why this may be?

@Numbalina... im sorry to hear whats happening In your life. It sounds very similar to mine except im not the sufferer im "him" i may be new to this myself.......but i just want to say that your partner has been there this whole time for you and the kids..that means something and thats a huge...

@theotherside... that makes so much sense to me now what you just wrote. my partner got so stressed out going to a wedding the other week that i ended up sending him home, thats probably the reason he gets quite frustrated when i try to organise things as he is a day to day person whilst im a...

I'm Hungrrrryyyy

i got one from Aussie land- purchase 12 hotdog buns, Place sausage on the Barbieee, chop 2 onions place on barbiee, purchase tomato sauce/ketchup spread onto bun and place sausage and onion carefully i mean carefully on top and dont forget extra sauce :) tip downunder....crikey its a big one...

@Lemontree ..... pig meat conversion would be Pork/bacon i would think in aussie land :P

@shimmerz thankyou..:) .. i already have a generalised anxiety disorder so wont be anything new thats why its taking me a little longer to understand and learn. So i dont ket it get the better of me

Hi everyone, My partner has combat ptsd his currently not in a good head space.. not sure if his coming or going and is just wanting to take everything "easy" in life and with the relationship....we are still talking on the phone and seeing eachother on the weekend.....However im finding myself...

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Thanks for your posts everyone it really means alot to have advice and just some peace knowing im not alone. Day by day im really trying to focus on myself im having my hair done tomorrow to make me feel good again and thinking if taking up boxing its better for me just to put him in the back of...

@shimmerz any thoughts on what i encounted on sunday?

We talked yesterday i gave him a call which was nice havent heard from him today hoping i do tomorrow though pretty sure i will day on day off etc etc blah blah blah

@shimmerz it was so nice to see him but still was not in a great place. No kiss but he did on the cheek.. just a tense cuddle after i asked. We talked for awhile he opened up a little about how i was better to leave Was trying to give me a perspective...but i just remembered what we were talking...

How do you know when people come out of the dark hole? Can they just feel a little better one day i know not 100% but maybe come back just a little ?

@shimmerz ...i do see it when his not in a bad headspace.... this is my first experience of a big meltdown ...and we have been together nearly a year... cant say its always been peaches in the year but his worth it because i just close my eues and think of the better times :)

@Neverthesame thankyou :) i start therapy next week so it will be good for me thats also to work some of my other stuff out. Its probably pushed me to finally do it myself so im grateful for that. Im not going anywhere just yet will stand by him... i may only have him in my life at the moment...

@The One Who Knocks And @shimmerz thank you for your response. He has not said he loves me just yet not sure if he ever will. But he still does the actions speak more than words. He just feels like giving up sometimes.... on himself and feels he doesnt deserve what his got and it seems he just...

Ive got a question... if given the option by your ptsd partner to just walk away bare yourself the pain when they are in a dark hole.... why is it so hard too.... just walking away .....im not a wife, i dont have obligations, or expectations.....all i know is that im a fighter, i dont give up, i...