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I am going to try and ignore the Grand Final as much as possible (I am a bombers fan) and leave my hawks supporter hubby to the TV

AWESOME!!!!!!!!!! Good for you my friend. Soooo happy for you

I understand what you mean. When my little man was born 3 years ago it terrified me because the first 6 months of his life I was numb and on auto pilot. I had a lot of issues with dissociation and depersonization. It is not uncommon with sufferers of PTSD. I pray you have feelings soon. Please...

I have to admit that my moods can change in a heartbeat and I hate. I can be doing well and all of a sudden something can trigger panic like a visual cue or an intrusive thought etc. I think it's very common for those with PTSD.

Just to clarify, my counsellor at the time was making me aware of the fact that when we are hurting we can inadvertently hurt others. She was not suggesting that I may become abusive myself, just to be aware of strong feelings etc. I apologize if I worded my earlier post incorrectly.

Thank you all for being so open and honest. It has been an issue I have been reluctant to bring up but you guys always make it a bit easier. :hug:s for all!!!

I am not sure if this makes sense but I was told when I left my abuser that I may be at risk of abusing others. (So called experts.) They told me that if I am hurting and feeling anger, depression. etc that I am at risk of hurting others. I have been hurt and shudder at the thought at hurting...

@Sammyiam never underestimate the power of a "small step". Every accomplishment is significant especially if it has an impact on your well being like this has. I know some of your struggle so this is HUGE!!! Well done and :hug:s my friend.

I with you on that @mrsps. I am comforted by the fact I am "normal". (normal for ptsd!!!)

I have been thinking today how lucky I have been to find this forum. I found it by complete accident when I googled information about PTSD and a certain medication. I am just curious as to how others found their way here and what kind of impact it has had on their lives both positive and negative?

Great talking point @fly away home. I am ok tonight (slightly stressful morning). I hope you are doing well. :)

@digger I feel that way too when my kids have friends over. @fly away home I am usually on edge also. I have a startled response to all sudden noises but the doorbell or a knock at the door are harder to deal with.

I wont go into details, however, many of my traumatic events often resulted in people turning up at my house unexpectedly, including police, ambulance, etc. People coming to my house, especially if I don't know they're coming, is extremely stressful for me. As some of you may know I live in a...

Awesome news @GWhizz!! Those are the best moments of parenthood!!

Thankyou @Radise

Great thread Sammy. Ptsd has robbed me of my life, beliefs and sense of self. Everything I once was i am no longer. PTSD the gift that keeps on giving!!!

Thank you @KwanYingirl for your insight. I send my sincerest warm wishes and hugs to you.

Is this an ongoing thing Anthony? will there be an opportunity in the future for others to join the ranks?

I thank you too @Sammyiam. You have helped me in more ways than you will ever know. :hug:s my friend.

PTSD is very different to other metal heath issues in that there is a moment where it began. For me it was 10:05 am 14th March 2003. The moment when I perceived my life was about to end. For myself, it was a moment of clarity when my ex went for the knife. He had tried to strangle me and told...

The calm we were discussing was similar to the calm we felt when faced with the life changing, life threatening experience that lead to our PTSD. I think that is different to a response of shock. Our discussion was in reference to our responses regarding further trauma and how we responded with...

Before I begin I want to say a big thank you to members @Privateer, @Eedara and @Sammyiam for the inspiration for this thread. :hug:s to you. It appeared to me in chat this evening that a number of us have experienced a strange occurrence or reaction when faced with a serious and threatening...

Well done to you both. I wish you all the best in your new roles.

The fear and aniexty that is paralysing. Also the really frustrating startled response which I have no control over and dissociation.

Well said Sammy:)