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Time for both of you to get help.

Are you getting therapy? It will serve you both.

My comment here was not in response to you, but in response to another post that has since disappeared, but thank you for your concern. And thank you, moderators.

I was mistaken, not trying to scare people away. And thank you, SweetLullaby, for your kind correction.

My daughter struggled with this due to GAD. Your stomach responds to anxiety by making more acid. She started taking a low dose of prozac, and is doing much better.

Gwena, You will be banned from this site soon, as you are under-age. I suggest, though you talk to your doctor or pediatrician about these things A.S.A.P without your parents present. He/she may prescribe meds for anxiety, as well as pursuading your parents to get counseling for you. It...

Lulu, It is clear to me that you want a relationship with them, and I think that is great, so long as you are not sacrificing yourself on this alter. I think it is important for you to recognize, however, that the parenting roles are reversed here. You are the parent, protecting and shielding...

Just curious, is your dad pursuing a relationship with you, or is this also entirely your responsibility?

So, she denies and blames you for the abuse and manipulates you by smothering you with love and guilt. You have a great relationship as long as you pretend to live in her little perfect world. Are you my clone? I think you should neglect to tell her for now, and get some therapy under your...

This makese so happy!!! I hope the two of you have many happy healing years together!!!

Try practicing in a empty parking lot, then quiet streets and slowly work your way up. That being said, for me, medication was a God-send. I could barely make it driving a few blocks. Now I am pretty un-phased by driving. It is a common issue, so don't be embarrassed talking to your doc...

Your history of depression as a teen, history of anxiety, reaction to marijuana (and reason for smoking it) intrusive thoughts, etc., all serve as clues for him to properly diagnose you. Be as open as you can. Blessings to you on your healing journey.

P.S. Make sure you are getting therapy. There is a lot of healing to be had by re framing these awful experiences.

Jess, I have found that if someone is asking this question, they at least need to take an extended break from the family, so they can get in a better spot, so as to make better decisions.

You don't have to make a "forever" decision. You can make a "what's best for me, now" decision.

I think getting back on meds and therapy need to be part of the ultimatum.

I struggle with the same thing at time. Might I suggest not trying to tackle everything at one, but make small goals. For example: Instead of trying to vacuum the whole house, vacuum for only five minutes today. Then reward yourself...a relaxing cup of tea. I think as you see progress, you...

kacee, I am a sufferer. I got help at my husband's request. When I finally acknowledged that I needed help, he was with me every step of the way. Until he is willing to acknowledge he needs help, you can do no more. You are only his enabler. Perhaps this will be the push he needs to...

No, it does not sound harsh. He has to take responsibility or things will just get worse.

Hi, Em. As far as taking care of yourself, consider what you would recommend or do for someone in your situation. Then do it for yourself or ask someone to help you. I know it is difficult to ask for help, but it is an important step in getting well. So is avoiding unnecessary trauma. I...

Dear finding grace, I think that your relationship and love for your kids is a great place to start. I think once you can get him out of your house, you will better be able to handle some of the emotional baggage. One thing at a time.

H-m-m-m, I wrote a similar post a few years ago. I skipped the gethering and do not regret it.

That is going to be a BIG BEAUTIFUL dog!!!

I have worked hard to tackle my ptsd, and it has paid off. I'm really good with kids, and I am really good at teaching. I am an animal whisperer.

I realize that I used to disassociate CONSTANTLY, but now I don't. And I realize I can love my siblings from a distance, and I don't need to feel guilty about that.