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I am so sorry you are having to go through this @RSouth Yes, please do take care of yourself. She is definitely responsible for her own actions.

Oh my.... Yes, I totally understand this. I'm not good with this sort of thing either. It's not that I wouldn't want to see my friends or family, but I have to, sort of, prepare myself. Also, I understand the shock aspect, I get sort of quiet, introverted. At the grocery store the other day...

Woke up at 4am this morning (Tuesday) and that stupid anger feeling over powered me. Yes, I started thinking about something, but nothing I should have been so angry about...and then it just took over. I woke up my husband with my tossing and turning, and my body shaking with fury. And then he...

Well, three weeks ago he said he was sick with a cold. If he had the flu that could take two weeks to start feeling better. And then work, and his stress. Yep...drives me crazy Sure, why not... :) ask him about his cold, if his brother enjoyed his birthday, the weather, tell him a...

She took a semester off so perhaps she can work on her schedule for next semester? Can she do some volunteer work? :) there are a lot of places to do that. Shelters (bring over some homemade sweets and coffee for breakfast), toy drives (call toys for tots and help out), animal rescues...

Yes, yes... I'm sorry you're having to go through this, that you are having to fight through this. It is very hard. You are working very hard and obstacles can be overwhelming, but you're doing so well. :)

I still think you are brave. :) Have your adult, determined self take your young self to therapy tonight. Tell your younger self he is a knight and to take courage, he's battling, but not alone. You will be with him and so will "T". He has a lot of people lifting him up. He will never be...

But you are brave and you are facing things head on, and that is admirable. :) You are so very strong, don't forget that.

Did you ever think maybe he got a concussion? And maybe he's telling you it's no big deal because he doesn't want to worry you? A head injury is nothing to play around with. He needs to see a doctor.

Yes, east bay, I live near the estuary. It's the fog and the dampness, like you're wet and cold and can't get dry. I get it, but I love it!

Yes, the bay area :) No, still don't like the treadmill, even with music. It makes me hate the music...hahaha

Hi @PTSDGuy :) haha, you must be in southern California. I'm in northern California. I totally agree with you as far as a sports doctor, no better doctor when it comes to injuries like these. I'm so glad you found swimming, I love it! It makes me feel free! That too is why I go to the...

I don't go to the gym. I either swim in the warmer months or walk 3+ miles a day. Sometimes I'll do both. I can't run anymore because of an accident that ripped up the back of my left thigh. I still try though :) but after about 50 feet, I'm limping all day, so I shouldn't do it. But I...

Hi @Tura I think it's brave of you to seek answers and to seek truth. This is absolutely true and is nothing to laugh at...your therapist should not laugh at you. It's sounds like you are happy with your therapist :) and once your trust builds and you are able to open up, you will find she...

My babies are bunny and pinky. They have been with me forever. I got bunny from my sister when I was 6. Bunny was hers, but when she got married she knew how much I needed her and she said I could take care of her. She eventually said I could have her. Her fur has been loved off. She is...

Hi @ImjustasnailSNAIL :) I get it. I'm in the bay area and know the worry. My cousin fought in those fires last year. And I had family and friends there. Last month was hard with all the smoke. Lots of people think earthquakes are our big natural disaster "thingy" we deal with. Visitors...

I'm sorry for what both of you are going through. It sounds like she has so much she is dealing with. I can only tell you how I have felt at desperate times in my life. First, she needs to be able to trust you. That is huge, AND even though she can, she might not feel like she can and what I...

You are very brave and strong. You can do it. :)

Yes, you can do this. Call her.

Why don't you know if you are safe? You must try to think, ok...what can you do at this minute to be safe? Can you call your therapist right now? Ok, I don't know where you are, but in the states you should be able to call your therapist office, please do

Can you call a crisis line? Are you safe?

Can you call anyone right now that can support you?

Hi @Dubiousraves I get it. I know. When I'm like that I can feel the anger in every inch of my body. I'm furious at absolutely nothing and everything at the same time. Can you scream and yell into a pillow and kick the bed? It helps me. The more I can get it out, the faster I can get out...