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  1. J

    Relationship Distance In Relationship...normal?

    I wonder what's happening at her family's house. From what you said she seems to back away when she comes back.
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    Help With Dr./ Patient Relationship

    It might be because of insurance issues. Since its not really a "visit" your doc might not be covered by his liability and if anything happened he might get in trouble for it.
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    Relationship This Is What I'm Feeling Lately

    Sorry, didn't mean to make anyone feel worse. I was just in a down mood and it kind of spoke to me. With my friend in super isolation mode and me having major depression, it just piled up too much I guess. Just wanted to share my feelings a bit.
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    Relationship This Is What I'm Feeling Lately

    I wish I could give up sometimes, make it easier on both of us. I just can't right now. I care too much.
  5. J

    Should Your Therapist Have Certain Things In Common With You?

    I think it depends on the person. I prefer a woman therapist. I know that my friend with combat ptsd prefers a vet.
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    Afraid To Be A Woman

    I dont have much feedback or advice but, I feel the same way. I hate the way I look and wish i could be put together like my friends, but I also feel completely insecure when I do dress nice. When I wear makeup and dress "normally" I feel like everyone is staring at me because I'm too dressed...
  7. J

    What Helps You Get Through Your Bad Days

    I love fresh, clean sheets. A clean bed just seems to make me feel a bit better. I love the smell and comfort. And watching my cat, she's very relaxing.
  8. J

    Cymbalta Switched To Generic?

    Sometimes generics aren't exactly the same as name brand. I would talk to your doctor about it and see if (s)he can talk to the pharmacy/insurance company about making sure they fill it with the name brand.
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    General 2013 Sucked

    I'm glad I found this site while looking up about ptsd. It seems to help a bit. So thanks to everyone and I hope that this year is great for you guys as well!
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    General 2013 Sucked

    So I went out with friends for dinner tonight and I guess I should be happy I can put on a good face when I'm really just completely broken inside. I was driving to dinner and one friend asked me how I was doing and said that with all I've been through this year, I put off such a positive...
  11. J

    Question For Female Members.

    I've tried using tampons and just can't. I was on vacation once at the beach and couldn't get it out, my mom had to come in and pull it out for me. Never again. I felt it the entire time and it was aweful. About the underwear thing. I found years ago boy shorts that look like men's boxer...
  12. J

    Small Win At The Movies

    That's why when I go to the movies I try to go in the middle of the week a few weeks into the run. There's fewer people.
  13. J

    At What Age Is Your First Memory

    I can't really remember much of anything. I get bits and pieces, like flashbacks, but have no real, full concrete memories. I've had people ask me if I remember events and I have no clue. They will tell me I said something, but I just don't remember. It's kind of scary sometimes. Like...
  14. J

    General Possible Breaking Point?

    Thanks for all the advice. It's just hard because I know that he's struggling around the holidays and the same day that I saw him last was the last day he saw his main, weekly therapist. His therapist moved to another state to get a better va position and he was with him for 5 years and they...
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    General Possible Breaking Point?

    The good does outweigh the bad, I think anyway. Just hearing from him everyday makes me happy and when we see each other things are great. It's just difficult not knowing when I'll see him again and wondering if he really doesn't want to see me or if its just him pushing away for a little so he...
  16. J

    General Possible Breaking Point?

    I just want to vent a little. So I met this guy online about 7 months ago and he has combat ptsd. We email back and forth nearly every single day and see each other when he feels ok to do so. It used to be about once a week, then it was once every 2 weeks, then once a month, now it's been...
  17. J

    I Think I Am Going To Get A Cat

    I agree with waiting on a name until you see it's personality. I was just thinking the other day how calming cats are and how much mine have eased my stress and been there for me. Especially when you're not feeling well and they look at you with their big kitty eyes. I melt haha. Yay for kitties!
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    Self Harm - Very Severe Compulsive Self-mutilation

    I pick at my face, lips, and fingers. Lotion on my hands and Vaseline on my lips helps a little. It's harder to do when there is a barrier of some sort. Try cutting your nails short or perhaps a manicure would work for the biting and pulling of the skin. I know they get the rouge pieces of...
  19. J

    Breath Holding, Just Discovered I'm Doing It A Lot, Wtf?

    I do it a lot. Sometimes I just have to remind myself to breathe.
  20. J

    General Stopping Therapy

    Oh sorry, wasn't sure where to put it. Thanks!
  21. J

    General Stopping Therapy

    So my friend has combat ptsd and he was going to therapy once a week and he has emdr therapy every other week. He has been seeing his main therapist for the past 4 years, but he is moving to another state to get a better va job. I asked my friend if he was gonna try to find another one and he...
  22. J

    My Boyfriends Suffering With Ptsd

    How do you know when they want to leave forever or just for a time when they say pretty much the same thing when they are pulling away?
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