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Hattie, Good for you for posting this! I'm so sorry to hear what has happened with your sister. My partner passed away from suicide so I can relate. You aren't alone and I just wanted to let you know that. Hang in there and I wish you the best. Manic

GDF, Welcome to the forum! We are all here to support each other. We all help one another so thank you for joining the link! I wish you peace and healing. Manic

If you think about it, too many people are just sorry because they got caught or there is consequences... Manic

Agreed! Hope he leaves you alone now! Manic

Bec, I really admire that. That's amazing of you! Not many people can say that and mean that. This is comforting getting everyone's opinion. I felt like I had no hope because I was no where near forgiving them. This is because I don't feel that they even did anything wrong! I feel that I...

Well personally, because I have been abused all my life, being "okay" is terrifying because fear is all I know. This is all I know. Another part of it is that I've been so trained that I do not deserve to be okay. So thinking about me being okay in the future scares me because I don't feel like...

I'm still having a lot of non-trauma related nightmares and I don't get it. In last night's nightmare, I was walking through this barn like place. I couldn't really see anywhere but it was wooden boards for the floor, there were leaves all over the floor and there was a bed there. I'm pretty...

With me personally, I get anxious in the evenings and I also text friends just to chat. I need that company. During the day, I'm fine to be alone. I'm calm, relaxed (for the most part) and "normal". In the evening I find it most triggering. I think it's because my trauma happened mostly in the...

Yes! I feel like this as well. PMS can't help that's for sure! However, I have had these moments plenty of times when it wasn't even close to "the time". So yes, its definitely hard to say. In my opinion, you can't completely blame it on PMS. However, PMS definitely doesn't help! *Sigh* And men...

I just got the news today that my friend is off bright and early tomorrow morning for basic training for the army. I couldn't believe it! He's back in time for Christmas, back for 2 more months of basic training then he's deployed to god knows where. He said he's going to be an Artillery Man. I...

Onefineday, Don't worry about an off topic rant! If anyone has examples or stories of this then feel free to share! Those are definitely good ideas! I told one of my co-workers all about him because she can be a bit of a b**** to the customers if she needs to be. In other words, she knows how...

I didn't think of it that way... That's a good point, Midi. Manic

Yes! I definitely have been in the same situation. I know what you mean by it felts so good! I agree, its not good to isolate yourself and to feed into the agoraphobia but when it's just a day or two I look at it as taking an emotional break from some of my anxiety. Just so I can relax, my...

That is exactly why I was against the manager giving him his way! Now he knows that if he pushes enough that he will get his way and it makes us look like morons! :wall: He looks to be in his 80's so its not like he's young and saying this. Either way, its completely unacceptable! I warning my...

Haha! I used to use my riding crop as a weapon too! My brother never thought it would hurt. Used to make fun of me all the time. Then he smacked himself with it....From then on he never came near me when I had that thing! :rofl: Manic

Good for you, Nicky! Don't be afraid to do something nice for yourself all the time! Glad you're feeling better. :Hug_emoticon: Manic

I agree with 2quilt. That maybe a sign that she is unorganized and forgetful. Might not be the right therapist for you. I understand your trust issues. I'm the exact same way. I wish you luck. Manic

Maybe next time he comes through and insists he gets something his way because his a vet, I'll ask him if he's a vet for small or large animals! :rofl: Manic

Nicky, Thank you for sharing this with us! I'm sorry for all you've experienced and had to go through but you're so strong and you've given me such hope and support when I need it. Remember how I said we should hang onto each other? Grab my hand! We're all here for you. I hope you're...

Hahaha. I like number 2. :occasion: Manic

Congrats again She Cat! Manic

So let me start off by explaining that I work part-time at a grocery store as a cashier and supervisor. There is a customer that shops there regularly. He always likes to give the cashiers a hard time. One day he told me he shouldn't have to pay tax because he is a vet. He then went on to say...

Thanks! I may use them while I'm doing my yoga! Manic

Gorgeous! Really stunning! And so are the photos :) They really are gorgeous photos. Congrats again! Manic

And you didn't go out before you figured out what the smell is!! That would have been interesting... :eek: Manic