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You are probably right, but I dont know if I can talk to my therapist about sexual stuff- I am a bit childish at that point. I kind of trust him, I just feel like its extremely private and embarrasing.

Thank you - I hope you are right about everything will turn out fine. I did not plan staying in therapy for more than a few months, but now I get that I might "have to". I had to work on some issues with my parents (emotional and physical abuse). Good to hear from someone who has been there.

Well. I can certainly relate to what you are saying about "different parts". Its difficult to get a permanent job where I live (expecially in my profession), so soon I will be without a job again, unless I get a new one quikly. I will get some unemployment benefits so we will manage fine for a...

I feel like I have to add something. Or maybe it is another question. When I was little, I engaged in sexual play with a friend. It was a bit more extreme than the sexual play kids normally does, I think. This went on a few years, but we did not see eachother often. But I remember this very bad...

Yes, even though I dont want to know, I kinda feel like I need to know in a way. Or can you heal probably, when you dont know exactly what to heal? I will check out the book. Thank you.

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My first post here was about fear of therapy. I guess this post is about the same in some way. This is hard for me to write about - I dont know how to adress this issue, and I kind of need your help. Like I explained in an earlier post, a fear of sexual abuse in my childhood has comed to the...

I remember you because of your good answers and perspective on my first post in this forum a couple of weeks ago. I also think you have been brave, I would never dear discussing something so intimate. But it seems important to wirk with. Sad to hear about your struggles though. In time I think...

He has answered my mail. He did not answer me quickly because he wanted to wait and see if any openings would come up in the nearest future instead of scheduling a time next month. But I agree with you, and I did write him a follow up. In case he had forgot.

Thank you for your answer. I did not know about bodily treatment, I am not sure if I want to go into that rigth now. But I will read some more about it and think about it. I think I will stick with my therapist for now. And I cant afford two therapist I am afraid.

Maybe. He seems to be helping me, though. I am not working only with trauma. But also problems in my "here and now" life. May I ask you, how does a trauma therapist/trauma therapy work? What do you think is the most important skill/method etc.? If others would like to share their views on this...

Hey. I dont know if I am ready to bring these questions up. But I have discussed my fear of becoming to dependent though. I am not good on the phone so writing is better. I agree that these are issues I could bring up, but I Will have to see. My biggest fear is that he does not want to work with...

I`ve been thinking that he might be "testing me" as well, but it would be mean. Maybe he is just good with bookkeeping, like you say. Yes it hurts. Because it kinds of confirms what you really knows deep inside: That he means more to you than you mean to him. And he is not "really" in my life...

I dont know if he is at holiday, dont think so. He is probably just busy, I dont know. He has not got any receptionist. I will not send him an angry email, I know, that would make things worse. Its just that, he is the only one I have been talking too about my trauma, and now it feels like he is...

I wrote my therapist a week ago, asking for a new session. He answered the next day, proposing a time, I am not able to come. So I wrote to him if we could find another time. Now its been six days and he has not answered. I hate that it makes me anxious, but it really does. I am thinking maybe...

Thank you for your reply. Good to know I am not the only One with these feelings and thoughts. I guess I should stick with therapy even though I am scared. Interresting to read about your experiences.

Thank you for your answer. I guess you are rigth about these feelings being pretty common. About the abuse, I think you are rigth and if it did happen, I guess I strong enough to handle it if I start to remember. Still afraid I wont be though. And thank you for your welcoming!

Yes I guess its pretty common feeling too dependent, and maybe a sign I should stick with it. I dont know. He is not a trauma therapist, but He is the one I trust and I cant imagine seeing someone else at this point. I think its him or nothing. Sometimes I get afraid he does not want me there...

Thank you for your reply! About the time I blanked out: Don't remember what we talked about right before, but I don't think we talked that much about my childhood that session..I can't remember blanking out, but just coming out of it. I didn't think of anything as I took a time out, I just...

Hey I am new here, been reading a little while though (I hope my English is understandable, English is not my first language). I have some thoughts I need to get out here and maybe get some feedback on. A few months ago I started therapy - I went to a rough period in life and began grieving...