Search results

It doesn't matter that you went to his dorm, the fact you said no and he carried on is sexual assault. Please don't blame yourself it wasn't your fault.

My T works from home. If I go what I call the back way to town I drive straight past her house. I find myself going this way sometimes when I do go into town. I don't know why, the only thing I can see is her house and if her car is in the drive. Its not like I get to see anything exciting by...

You are not stupid!! You are not stupid!! You are not stupid!! Do you get it, you are not stupid!! I know what you say about the friend thing, when I am feeling down and not good about myself I avoid my friends because I think I am not good enough. But I need to remember my friends like me for...

argh I feel your pain! I wish at times I could just turn my mind off. Funny thing is my T has gone through with me ways I can distract myself to stop over thinking certain things but when my mind is racing with thoughts I can never remember the techniques she has told me! Is there something you...

Welcome! Don't be afraid of posting on here, we are mostly very nice people who are all here to help each other :)

Thanks for all the replies. :) My mind is not working so well at the mo, as I am so tired. Hope I get a good nights sleep tonight

Argh, this is my problem, have had sleepless nights as I play the whole thing over and over in my mind. I cant stop thinking about all of it and trying to analyse all of it. Its driving me crazy. Sammy I saw her Tues morning, so don't know if she has gone away yet or not. Don't have an email...

Thanks @Sammyiam :) I would properly normally have freaked out at this but hubby and I are going on holiday as well, ended up being great timing as we are both away at the same time. I wouldn't have been able to have an appointment with her until the same time she is back anyway due to us...

So I went to my therapist appointment on Tues, about 10 mins before the end of the session my T told me she was going away on holiday and would be back after labour weekend (which would be tues 28th, so 3 weeks away) she picked up her diary but I had something I wanted to tell her before the...

yay that's awesome, such a nice T you have. Glad you had a good talk with her :)

So great to hear positive stuff, so happy for you and what you have achieved!! Wishing you all the best as you continue to heal xx

lol I have googled my T and there is nothing on her except her therapist contact number!

There is no need to feel mortified!! She sounds like a very nice T :) Glad your cat is all good

I have never run into my T outside of our sessions, but if I did I would say hello to her :) Don't think I have any awkward or funny moments lol I must be boring ;)

**breath** Worrying about something that hasn't happened yet (and most likely wont happen) is not doing you any good. Can you do something so you can focus your mind on something else, visit a friend, go for a walk? Anything to try and distract yourself :hug:

I know exactly what you mean about wanting hugs. Sometimes you just want to be held to feel safe and loved. Sending you a :hug:

Oh yay I want to share my positive story. I normally avoid social situations as I really struggle to communicate with people and always feel self conscious. A school friend that I am still good friends with decided to organise a catch up of 5 of us that were friends at school. (15 years ago...

Sorry you are hurting :hug:

I don't enjoy sex, never have. Have been with my hubby for 4 years and in that time have had very little sex (and was only in the first few months we were together that we had sex). Im lucky in the fact he isn't really interested in it either so no pressure from him. I wish I did enjoy it but I...

Don't be sorry! Its not like just because its a new day that everything is magically going to be better, these things take time. It is a long slow process to work though and takes a lot of strength. I totally understand the confrontation stuff, I am the same I hate it and avoid it as much as I...

My advise, be very careful as you have not met this person, in person!

I don't know if I get angry as such but yes I hate the feelings of attachment I have for my therapist. I am normally very independent, lived by myself for years have very few friends and very much a loner (am now married but most of the time its just hubby and I spending all our rime together)...

Hey Tiger, how are you doing today?? :)

Sorry you are feeling so low at the moment. I think a lot of us here have had these feelings at times but, they don't last forever. You can get through this. We are all here for you, so please don't feel alone, we care!!

@Ninja Im glad you have brought this up as it is something I think of quite a bit and its nice to see Im not alone in these feelings. I have mentioned to my T a few times Im scared she is going to give up on me or retire etc and I wont be ready to leave her. I know this comes from a fear of...