Search results

I have a close friend from childhood. We have been in contact every day for the past 20 years. She has never told me so, but I am fairly certain she was sexually abused as a child. There have been times when she has reacted very strongly to what I interpret to be triggers. When confronted...

Your writing is very erratic and difficult to make sense of. Are you able to get yourself to a quiet place and explain what happened when you are calmer? It would help us to respond to your post more productively

I dont blame or judge you for not reporting him. Anyone that does, does so because they dont understand. That is their ignorance. Not your fault at all. Im sure if the situation were reversed they would understand why so many victims do not report rape. No one deserves to suffer like this. The...

I was told the shaking and jerking is the bodies way of trying to release emotion. Which is not a Surprising reaction after talking about your trauma. Try walking it out or some strenuous exercise. You may find you will continue to have a range of unpleasant feelings over the next few days or...

Thats fantastic news! Congratulations. Hope you can order a new copy of your birth certificate without to much trouble.

Well done. Im a clencher too. Do you find the guard comfortable to sleep with?

I felt more comfortable with a female dentist if that is an option that you think could be helpful?

Oops... lost a second quote after the first paragraph. Hope it still makes sense.

This is something you might have to figure out for yourself. I guess there are a lot of possible reasons. Alcohol can be a big contributor in over sharing for some people. Does it matter if he tells anyone else? Thats up to you. Do you wish to start a relationship with him? If you do, would it...

Alcoholism can aggrevate domestic violence and can dysfunctional relationships. It's up to the Individual to address their drinking when they pose a risk to others. I'm glad your Dad is sober now. You were just a child and not responsible for the actions of your parents. I hope you don't...

You said you have a habit of telling too much too soon. So do you feel it is a problem for you? I dont think there is necessarily any shame it but there could be consequences you should at least be aware of. It's difficult to make a good judgement of character just hours after meeting...

Im happy for you Matlida :-)

I am sad and angry for you. What happened was not ok at all. I really hope this guy doesn't live in my neighbourhood! No doubt he will offend again.. Is avoiding him a possibility?

This may not be true but if it makes you feel that way then I don't think you should do it. I went through a stage where I would not be able to stop thinking about a particular incident. Eventually I started to imagine myself killing the attacker. I just wanted it to stop!! It was both...

I feel powerless to my hyper iguana. It often keeps me awake at night. I never Know what is coming next. I live in fear when my iguana is playing up.

You have Some good resolutions @otakujome. I am sure you will achieve them. My resolutions are to eat better, sleep better, attend physio therapy, finish the dental work I need done after backing out last time, learn a new skill and do some volunteer work.

I am really sorry you feel this way. I dont have an answer for you. But hope that with the Support of your therapist you are able to overcome some of these challenges. Glad you were able your feelings.

Yes I suffer from this problem too. The main technique Ive found useful is to "blank out" but thats probably not a healthy way to deal with the problem. The other thing that helps sometimes if youre having flashbacks is to focus on something about your partner which doesnt resemble your...

Congratulations!

I could have written this myself at one stage. These days guilt is no longer with me so much. Lately I've found myself looking at the future rather than the past. What can I do next? Its exciting and frightening but I'm looking forward to putting my toe in the waters of change.. I think guilt...

Congratulations on your progress Mit. I hope that you are finding more relief from your symptoms soon too.

It's Possible that he didn't Intend to kill you. Maybe he just took you there and told you that to instil fear. Either way the intent was to make you believe he meant to kill you. So its reasonable for you to assume so. If you are doubting your memory is accurate thats ok too. Its ok to make a...

It's not uncommon for a conversation to trigger unresolved feelings. This could be an opportunity for you to challenge your self doubt.

That sounds like a valid interpretation me.

Looks great Anthony.