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Yes.....I have not spoken to my boyfriend for 3 months because he cut me off after two years because he imagined that I cheated. Its very painful. The only thing we can do is be as loyal and faithful to them as they would want us to be. If they choose not to ever believe us , that is up to...

Try Bikram Yoga...I heard its a huge medicine for mind body and soul and have experienced that in doing this I was able to start my healing process of a break up with my sufferer. I also read that it helps PTSD symptoms. Try a Bikram Yoga class. I wish the best for you

Hello Having Faith, Although I am not married to my hero. I am/was a girlfriend of one for the past two years. The part of your post that hit home to me is the part where you said: I also wish I could go back in time to the day before and tell myself to get ready for the fight of your life...

That's very beautiful Bartman. It means so much to me to see a man like you, still able to express his emotions. Not only that, but share them with others. That is a huge sign of progress. Keep sharing , talking, writing, and opening up. Thank you so much for sharing that. God Bless

Amazing...!!! Thank you !

Hang in there my friend! you are doing your best and you deserve the best

Hi Sammy J, Yes, this is common. Letting go and being able to not hold a grudge and forgive has definitely been a challenge on his end of the relationship, although he has said and done rude things to me in the past...I am always doing the forgiving and the forgetting (somewhat). This can be...

Hi Xelabela, Theres a pattern here that I recognize and have experienced and one that while experiencing...in the back of my mind I heard my inner voice say...Watch out..."there's a fall coming". Here's what I mean: During very romantic moments, trips, intimacy, dates, affection, expressions...

Sunshine, I just heard that John Denver song...Sunshine....and it just made me cry. In his heart he would probably sing all of these words to you. If you can go to his soul, I know you have made a difference by just being by his side.... You are good.

Spring, If only we could walk one day in "the feelin" would we? I would ,just to see what they see and what they feel. I think it would enlighten all of us or at least provide some closure. Why won't my heart let go when I know logically it is the best thing for me to do. I'm on two months 9...

Dear myvetswife, This is a huge sign of hope for me. I can't sleep tonight. Woke up came to my computer and your email was there with an Angel like message. I miss him. Thank you and congratulations on 20 years. I'm sure you had a lot to do with his recovery / road to recovery. Peace and love!

Hi Tamm, This forum has been very healing for me. I'm glad you found it too. Tamm, I think we are all trying to figure this out together. I have experienced exactly what you have several times. Its amazing how beautiful and wonderful it can be when they are themselves. I was and have no idea...

Hi Everyone, I'm back. Thank you all for your support. I feel I have friends here now. I have not been myself the last couple of days. Just been inward but I have been reading your responses. I ran into his mom today by surprise. I think we were both surprised. I was close with her and she DOES...

Sunshine, The grass is never greener as they say. An affair will never work out. It will throw another wrench into your already complicated situation and you will have something in your heart that won't feel good. This man of interest...would he pick up your life as his and love you and your...

Thank you Lana! I woke up this morning, feeling like I had dreams about him....I sleep with my phone hoping theres an email. I know all about that gut feeling of wanting to reach out and fear of rejection. I keep getting the gut feeling, email him and tell him ...I love you...just that. I'm...

Hi, How does the supporter become suddenly the sufferer?? I'm on two months no contact and he's in Iraq now. I have been filling my time with healthy activities and getting out much much more. I have stopped accepting phone calls from anyone who is connected to him and want to put in their...

Miss Amber, this relationship sounds just like mine when we were together....I feel you on the "sighs". He's not there in your time of need and he's not there in HIS time of need. There you go...what else can ya do? Try to smile and maybe ...I don't know if its ok...but laugh at PTSD sometimes...

Hi Lmarie, You know, what you are feeling is very real. I am going through it too. I miss him everyday. Don't understand how they can reject love, when love is what heals everything. I heard a quote the other day (during my searching for answers time)- Being offered a gesture of love is like...

Hi Having faith, The depression and isolation you feel from this will subside. I know that no matter what people tell you, ( no one gets it when it comes to PTSD and what we are dealing with), you have to stop listening to people's opinions because they just don't know. You need to reflect...

Oh lovehopepeace, I know what you are feeling. I was also accused of cheating....have only been faithful honest and dedicated to him. This is really crossing a boundary and it felt as though my dignity was being taken away from me when he did this. I also experience how they turn it around on us...

Hi Kster, Is he getting any help? Don't ignore the red flags. I fell hard for someone who became a different person overnight. I loved him, wanted to spend my life with him but had to find healing for myself and let go. Its a roller coaster ride. It is nothing but heartache and pain if...

Hi There Vanessa, I would love to comment to the fullest. I want to change my name on this site before I let it all out but honestly? Who wants to live like this? Who wants to feel like we are always wrong, who wants to take all of this baggage from someone and never have an apology, empathy, or...

Wow, you just wrote something right into my heart. I'm touched deeply. Im struggling with this right now. When night time falls, I become so scared about losing my boyfriend.We had plans too, the change came and hes deployed right now. He's turned away and I'm fighting to reach him but he's made...

Hi Marcel. I think its excellent that your wife is at least in the first step and that is getting the support she needs for herself. Although whatever she is going through now, will not go away overnight, she is taking the necessary steps to heal and that is a very good sign. It may seem...

Hi Jacqueline, Your story sounds very familiar. I know how brokenhearted you are. My boyfriend is in Baghdad as we speak as a contractor and he broke up with me out of nowhere for something that he imagined in his head. He just absolutely picked a fight to leave me. I haven't spoken to him...