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I guess I never looked at it that way. Thank you for explaining that. Hopefully he soon realizes that he could never say anything that would make me feel differently towards him. I will always be there for him no matter what and I hope he can eventually realize that. Thank you Junebug

Yes I do feel better. Although it doesn't make it any easier to go through, it does help to know that all the feelings I am having right now are "normal" in this situation. Junebug-Do you mean that he might be feeling shame for disclosing everything that he did this last weekend? Could he...

Thank you JS! I can't tell you how much it helps me to have someone to talk to about all of this. I figured I would wait until Friday like you said and just email him a simple message. I guess if he wants to talk to me then he will talk to me and if not then I have to live with that. Thank...

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And yes, I know I am being insecure and I shouldn't be. :(

I just don't know how much contact to do. If I see him on the chat on facebook should I message him? I feel like he is talking to everyone but me. (I don't know if he actually is talking to anyone else but it feels like I"m the only one being ignored.) I know I need to get tougher skin and...

I wrote him an email on Monday night. All I wrote was "Just wanted to say hi and let you know I am here if you need me" He hasn't written back at all and usually when I write something like that he replies and tells me how things are going. I hate thinking he doesn't want to talk to me but I...

Although I do have one more question. How long should I wait to email or text him? If I don't hear from him in a few days should I send an email or text or just wait until he contacts me?

This website helps so much! I am so thankful that I have people like you all to talk to about this because no one I know has every been through this or known anyone that has. Like I said, it's just hard to not take the fact that he isn't talking to me as a personal thing. I am scared that I...

I guess I am just extremly frustrated and don't understand anything about this. We spent last weekend together and had an amazing weekend where he opened up to me and we talked for hours. We had fun together just the two of us and it was the best weekend I have had in a long time. Then come...

It's funny that you say that about a duck because that is how I feel everyday of my life. :) Thank you for the advice. I figured, like you said, that I would just email every once in awhile just to remind him that I am here for him and just give him time and space that he needs. Hopefully he...

Thank you so much everyone. Yes he was in the military which was the cause of his PTSD. He served two tours in Iraq. I am trying to understand all of this and be there for him. Thank you all for your words. I know that it has nothing to do with me and I shouldn't take it personally. I...

I have a friend that is going through treatment for PTSD. We have known each other for three years now and just recently he opened up to me about everything that he is going through. I have never heard him speak so candidly to me before and I made sure that he knew that I supported him and...