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That actually depends on the laws Like here it's a mother's state. She can pretty much do anything Other states Father's have more rights But your issue is more complex than states

What country are you in? What are the laws for where you are?

I've tried to cut it off completely. This guy has me like no other has. I even accepted a date with someone. Then it caused me to break down and realize I am not ready to let go of him. And cancelled. Like even a friend told me the way I was acting I shouldn't be going. I was crying and that's...

Thank you. We have talked, but just small talk. And very infrequently. I am giving him space, but popping up occasionally so he knows I still care. I guess the idea of a relationship is dead, but I don't want to lose everything with him

Yeah. I haven't talked to him in a little over a week. I'm not going to contact him.

It's like he doesn't want to let me go, but can't give me what I need. All we do is push and pull and fight. But neither will walk away. I mean he's completely shut me out. We don't talk at all. But when I sent the I'm done message last week my phone started ringing. I don't get it

I'm angry at myself. This guy is destroying me and I can't let go. Even I try, he pulls me back in, but still gives me nothing

Don't do something that'll stress you out. Maybe suggest a small gathering with people you can tolerate at your house?

I don't even know what to do anymore. I haven't talked to him since our fight. I feel like just giving up. But I don't want to. I just can't take this.

He's lost it. I think he finally broke down. We've been arguing for no reason and I don't even know what he's talking about. He's twisting everything I said about myself into me saying its him. He's text so fast I can't even keep up. And I'm really worried right now. I don't even know why we're...

That just totally confused me. Are you OK? You sound upset

Since I can't edit now for some reason I'll add in this was months ago. And we've still talked and seen each other. Didn't want it to look like he used me and left.

No. Write down what you remember. Even go back a few days. And compare when you have a few episodes to see if there's a common point.

Maybe if you write this down you can find out based on timing if something is triggering it without you realizing

Yeah. That fits. We used to talk about sex all the time but never do it. Finally it happened and he ignored me for days then said he can't do it again.

I did that. I sent on fb messenger. That's actually when he came back with the I don't care about being happy. I sent him a text today telling him to be careful at work. And he did respond. I did that every day for almost six months. He always responded. And almost immediately. Thanking me and...

Force yourself up. Call a friend to go grab lunch or watch a movie. Just do everyday activities. Slowly bring yourself back.

He won't even see me right now. He's barely even speaking to me

So no contact won't make him feel like he screwed up? Before this happened he did something that upset me. And I'm huge on non confrontational communication, to avoid future issues. Can't fix a problem you don't know exists. So I mentioned it (and it wasn't as bad as this. Don't even remember...

At least you've got a starting point. Mine just things he's a failure at everything. Horrible self esteem

How do you let them know you're there when any contact pushes them away. And he's in denial that he even needs help

I'm in the same situation. Mine has had a major trigger. A death of a coworker. I'm so torn on how to deal. I feel like if I stay I'm going stress him. Because he's in total defense mode. I say can I see you, he responds with, why are you trying to fix me. Totally inappropriate response...

Following. I'm in the same boat.

Same here.

He isnt even responding to me. But is on Fb.