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It is at home but will update the post once I have it in hand. What you saying make sense somewhat.

I saw a document on the "Grounding Technique" that was given to my sufferer to use. I read through it and I am not sure if because I am not at the stages of understanding that ,is why it didn't make sense to me. It made me feel like they are teaching him how to disassociate from the reality...

Welcome... I hope this is a good outlet and a help to you. Sorry you have had such a difficult time outside the military life.

I agree it can be and she may or may not be able to push forward. This for me wasn't an incident that warranted my response and I felt he is fishing for a response. I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of getting a rise. I have feelings and can admit to blowing back up and nothing good...

Hi Toria I get that a lot. They seem to need to test to see if you will still be there for them no matter their behavior. I am not sure I would bring it up since I know how bad that can turn out. Just be grateful he seems to be over his mood and push forward...easier said than done!

I think they are well meaning and agree they nor I know what to say. I have been saying "Yes, my husband is sick and I am at work trying to get some distance mentally from that situation and that it is home life and not up for discussion at work". I will try "thank you for trying to help but...

Have you all tried the "Zzz quil" product it is supposed to be a sleep aide as well... just a thought. It seems like so many cures are not good for us.

I was thinking the same way about my situation. When it is good it is really good but when it is bad it is bad. Hope things work out for you and you all are able to move your family forward together.

I am clearly having a hard time with my home life. Apparently it is written all over my face at work. I am doing my best...hell I am here. Besides I am weeks into the marriage although upset and very hurt I am not ready to walk away. I have been pulled aside by a single HR person asked if I...

I agree he is on the sites for the escape and I fear my sufferer will turn to that some day. We are newly weds and have 4 kids total from previous relationships. I say that to say I know it is hard to handle and I would not encourage my own child to make the same decision I have. But the heart...

WoW you are in denial...he is on a sinking ship taking you down with him. Perhaps you should read your post and think to yourself what you would say to your closest loved one if they were in this same situation! You take your vows serious but he does not and you both can admit to that. You...

Seek some counseling. Try to understand your situation better. Read up about ways to ease into getting out and travelling. Communicate with your boyfriend and include him on your therapy.

I hate to tell you but it won't get any easier and unless you are strong enough to deal with the roller coaster ride then you should get off of the ride now. The ones with PTSD are damaged goods and you will have many hurtful times ahead. Since you are not married to him take a step back...

Good point Solara... Investigate other medications and even some natural methods that may work too. Example: Melatonin can be found in the herbal section bout $6.

True ...Thanks! I just needed to express the need for balance in the advise column. Some of the post seemed to make it seem like he was a horrible guy for finally loosing his patience. I am not saying it was right but lets not put him in the damaged pile marked NO REPAIR possible. It is...

At Ms Spock: When giving advise remember that what may be minor to you may be great to someone else. We all come with different coping skills. This person may not be able to handle the responsibility of being with someone who has PTSD but doesn't mean they are showing signs of a larger...

Here are my thoughts as a supporter. I doubt he is abusive. He seems to be frustrated and unsure of what he can do to help you. If you all are friends first then you will be able to over come this. Seek counseling to help him understand what you are going through as well as your...

HECK yeah! MY hubby drives me crazy with his forgetfulness. He takes Ambian and the side effects are hard for us. He talk and has had accidents in his sleep in our bed. The other choice is that he is just up for hours at night and that disturbs me more than the sleep talker. I ask him things...

I am with you... I am not sure what to call it. I am a supporter and the PTSD seems to rule the household. It depends on the day and the time I am asked. At the moment I am saddened and I would say a family is what best describes the unit. Its not really a happy home atmosphere. But as a...

My spouse (PTSD sufferer) enjoys working as a driver (chauffeur) so he can set his own schedule and have little communication.

WOW I read every word and cannot believe you have had the strength!. Please get yourself counseling so you can start the heeling process for yourself. He has many issues that are horrific to cope with. They would be for anyone but as I am sure you are aware the focus now should be on yours...

I stopped telling my friends anything. For the most part I don't spend a lot of time with them anymore. It is my choice. He says to do whatever I like...but it doesn't feel right to me anymore to hang out with them as frequently as I once had. I know they are there for me. When the heat...

I am married to a sufferer of combat PTSD and can identify with your experience. It doesn't get better honey. It may become less frequent the episodes or it may become more regular. Not knowing if medication, religion, therapy, or alcohol are involved in your relationship I would have to say...

I am so sorry for you. My heart goes out to you and your family.

My husband is fighting for it now with a lawyer after being denied the first time. I carry us financially primarily and so far we are okay financialy but we could use a favorable decision sooner rather than later. It is going to be hard but you are probably doing all that you can to care for...