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@TonyG, Thanks for your reply. I would like to stay , support him in every edge of his life, but he is the one who is pushing me away. you are married but we are only in a relationship, I think it makes it a little different ? You are right on this case,, thank you so much and I'll try to do...

Thank you very much for all your advices guys To be honest I do not what to do yet. yea @nursenurse , I am working on it to gather all my strength and move on, I am not sure if it's what he is really want or no. cause he pushed me away before, but it wasnt what he wanted to. ( this concern me...

Yes, I figured his signs out, he told me often enough that I need to find other man who is more suitable for me, that we shall break up, he cant give me time that I need. I always confront him directly. I asked him 18millionth of times to break up.But everytime when we meet and I said ' lets...

@Kaia Thank you so much for your kind words Much appreciated it

@Go Hungry Thanks for your reply. If move on was so easy to do than say it I'd have done it 3months ago,when he treated me like a shit ;( I know I am a fool, people told me often enough about that,but I am not ready to give up(yet)? why? I dont know,it's hard after these years we've been...

before his afghan deployment he was pretty much planing about you know relationship with comitment. Separating relationship? At the moment I feel morelikelyhe has no time for relationship. He sounds always busy work 8 to 22,6 days a week(I know he is lying) Yes he said he's been seeing doc once...

@Ghostybear73 Thank you for your reply, yes. last time it worked when I threated him that if I hear nothing from him at least once a week, then thats it. he texted me once or twice a week but this time I am not sure... :(

Here I am again , some of you may be familiar with my story. I thought me and soldier with PTSD have been through this "shut out " section after he came back from Afghan on March. the worst 3 months ever in my life we mastered perfectly together. end of July he had been sent to UK for promotion...

@Solara :( your reply just slapped my face:( I think back about it and it can be I've upset him about that thing. :( I am so sad,but I don't know how to make it better. I tried to talk to him, I asked him to the weekend to spend time with me but he said,he is busy with promotion.:( Normally...

@Justmehere Hey, thanks for your reply. we always tell each other about where we are going,who we are going to see and so on (sound silly but we do) :) so, I told him on that day that the stuntman guy going to come to germany and my sister expected me to accompany him but I insisted though...

Hello everybody, I am not sure how to start, some of you might have read my previous post But I will try to make it short and clear :) He is a soldier (British army in Germany)with "light"PTSD( I don't know why the doc said only "light") He has PTSD sonce he came back from his 6 months afghan...

I am sorry for what you have been through. Have you tried to explain to your wife bout your PTSD and tried to make her understand and told her that you need her atm more than before? Myself is in realitonship with a british soldier who just came home from Afghan, that suffers from PTSD on one...

True true !

Thanks for your reply He's been seeing doc, twice a week. Improvement, sometimes I see there is, sometimes I feel he gets worse. I know at first that he is worth the wait, I want to save our relationship(at least try) I know he is not this kind of man but on the other hand, when he shuts out I...

I don't have exact questions, I only want to write my feelings. My (still)2 years boyfriend been 3months back to Germany after 6months Afghan trip. the 1-2 months was the worse months ever, when he pulled away but I am okay. I can deal with it now (I found this web among that time) he never...

Thanks for you reply it helps me so much to understand more bout PTSD. My therapist told me times to move on every time I feel I am overwhelmed, I may love him but I shall love myself more (I had been myself in treatment for suicidal case) I feel the need to stay with him ( this is what I want...

Sometimes love speaks more than what you could hear and handle. But then again, love is the only reason why people do different kind of sacrifices. Like a healing wound, you poke to it time over time until it never healed. That’s what happened to me. Our relationship survived after his 6...

I will try to make it short and clear,and sorry for my bad english. I've been together with my bf for 2years. He is in british army(36yo) in germany and I am 27yo student in germany. we are in long distance relationship(we live 700kms apart ) but we managed to see each other at least twice a...