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I know this is a few days late, but good for you!!!!

I'm currently in the same spot. Lots of hugs! All you can do now is give it time. My vet randomly pushed me away today because of a misunderstanding on how he perceived my response. Last night we had an amazing time and even in past weeks and months. I'm praying for you and your situation and...

Thank you ladies! I was hopefully, but yet naive that my prsd relationship would end differently. He can't live without me, but doesnt want a relationship? But when I break up with him he won't take it? Oh lord. This time I'm at peace if I do end up walking away. Happy Friday. Hugs back!xo

Thank you for your response! Life just got in the way. With both of us having a new job in the past month and a new puppy, we were spending time with each other, but it was going through the motions. We are in a rut. I voiced how I felt and he did the same. Now, he questions everything and his...

My vet. Going through another rough spot. He tells me he loves. That he's dead inside. That he doesn't want to drag me to this place he is going. That he wants me in his life. Next minute, that he wants to fight for us. That he can't picture is life without me. Then, that he doesn't want to be...

Welcome! What @Lemontree suggested! Hugs!

@ihateusernames Beautifully written. I'm posting from my iPhone so sometimes I can't fully articulate my thought process. I'm glad counseling worked for your relationship! We were also told to take 2 weeks to 30 days off with no communication, we both couldn't agree to that lol. Lasted less...

@Wastinglight Hey! Hope you are doing alright! I know our stories are somewhat similar. Hope the situation has improved for you. Please do not feel bad, you are not at fault here. My vet now went to the extent of putting the fingerprint scan on his phone, he could be hiding something still or...

I've been there in your situation! Can't say anything right, can't do anything right! It's a tough road to navigate, the feeling of walking on eggshells. I usually walk away, give us both some time to cool off, rethink thoughts, recollect. Lots of hugs and love!!

In the same boat! Sexual survivor? Mine is a vet dealing with combat ptsd. We both have an open communication and with his antidepressants , ptsd medication, it is sometimes difficult for him to keep it up or come fast, even to have a desire for sex. We are going to start going to couples...

Hurt himself. I tried ignoring him, cutting contact, and he relied me back in and stopped at my workplace.

@Sighs thats what I say and think, but then he says he can't let me go and im afraid that if i do cut contact, he's going to do something stupid. I'm at a bind. Im suggesting couples counseling.

When confronted with an issue, no matter how small or big, my vet always lies! He knows I know he is lying, but why lie on top of a lie. I just don't get it!!! Blows my mind! Huge character flaw I'm trying to see if I can look past it. Ugh needed to vent.

@Sabrina0712 No worries! No one is perfect. With that being said, your situation sounds more of a personal and "relationship problem" as opposed to a real relationship being directly affected by ptsd and symptoms, whether he is suffering from ptsd. Two, BIG different things. I know you are...

My advice: ptsd or not, let it go. Move on. Best of luck!

@Wastinglight Yeah our stories are similar and know that you are not alone. If you ever need anything, PM message me:-) I know sometimes you go throw the doubt period, followed by bliss. It's quite confusing. Should you stay or give up? That's the question I'm currently struggling with...

@Danyel Lee Gaede Thank you! I am Christian, and so is he although right now he isn't worishiping. The storm is settling and passing. He visited me at work today. Confused me. Wanted to talk to me so we did. Essentially, he doesn't know what he is doing or what he is done. That he doesn't want...

Wow...I know this post is old, but it hit close to home. I hope you have found your peace and have healed.

@FridayJones Your is soo helpful!!! I appreciate it!!! Yeah, he says the new ptsd meds are becoming him feel weird. He is drowsy and feels like a zombie like. Didn't have any emotions and feels empty. Like a dead man walking. He broke down to me last night and he said that it's a combination...

@Danyel Lee Gaede Wow! Glad your friend is doing better now. He has combat ptsd from two tours in Iraq and a tbi. Our argument started about me questioning him about just our relationship and his whereabouts. I posted previously on here on our issue. Earlier in the day today he was so...

@Sweetpea76 he goes back and forth. Today according to him, he needs to just focus on him. Not any other relationship. Just him. I'm moving out. Today was hasty and a blur. I'm hurting. I don't know what to do.

Since my previous post, the storm seems to have settled. I still have anger here and there in him confiding more to her than me. I've been praying and reaching out to my pastors. He's finally getting help with ptsd and going to pain management which I am happy. I slightly try and talk about the...

Hmm... You set a boundary. He has told you he is known for this behavior...the disappearing act. Do you have mutual friends that you can reach out to? Maybe text saying "hey just let me know you are ok and safe." If he comes back, I would enforce that boundary by saying the next time you...

Wow. I know this post is old, but I am currently in the same boat. My vet hasn't been physically abusive, but I can relate to the emotional and verbal abuse. This thread literally reflects my current situation. He says that living without me petrifies him, that he needs me now more than ever, I...

It's great you want to be there for him, but everything about this screams red flag!! Run.Fast. Before you get more feelings involved. If you can't take him out of your life, I would consider being friends. That's its ...just friends. Nothing sexual, plus he is still a MARRIED MAN!!! Morals.