Hi justmehere,
I'm sorry.
I was a group benefit insurance consultant before going on disability. Your ability to earn income is you most important asset. I know it's distressing. You don't want to end up in a financially difficult position by withdrawing your request or by quitting.
Hold onto...
Hi justmehere,
I'm sorry.
I was a group insurance consultant before going on disability.
Your ability to earn income is your most important asset. Don't put yourself in a financially difficult position by quiting or withdrawing your request.
Keep records of the emails. Insist on having...
Thanks Joeylittle.
That was reassuring, especially when you said, "symptoms can be so strong that they can't be 'muscled through' - they can't be willed away." It is strange for something intangible to have so much agency over my life.
I did share this with my doctor who passed it on to my...
I want to add one more thing to help clear out the words of you're therapist.
I was 4 years old when I was first sexual abused. I must have been one heck of a sinner.
I Promise it gets better.
Silent000,
It's important to practice self-care more now than ever. I'm a spiritual person with a scientific mind and It sounds like you have religious beliefs, or, maybe you don't. So like me share two things with you that made me feel 3% better.
Archbishop Desmond Tutu is great friends with...
ACHIEVEMENT:
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• I joined this PTSD support group
• I only eat organic meats, fruits and vegetable.
• I'm maintaining the weight I lost.
• I reached out to an old friend.
• I make time for therapy.
• I spoke with my mother about PTSD. She was the last person to know.
•...
Hey everyone,
I haven't posted in a while and I want to share something that I've been too terrified to tell my doctors or my insurance carrier. I'm scared if I'm honest about how I spend me day I'll either loose my finance support or end up hospitalized and loose my autonomy.
So here is the...
Yeah. Multiple forms of self-care.
Rest and digest, yoga to help with armoring (muscle tension defense mechanism), mediation to reduce stress and CBT to help the inner critic become kinder.
Happy holidays everyone.
I don't know what to write. I feel like I'm not supposed to say anything. Does anyone else feel like a burden when they speak?
I was home for Christmas. I took the train home with my brother to see my mother. My brother and I took on the project of trying to put up my...
You're not alone. I'm with in this camp. My biggest turning point was realizing I went through something torturous. This is how I'm supposed to feel. I have a right to feel as bad as I do in this moment. I'm not supposed to be happy about having my childhood taken from me. How you feel is common...
Hello Dutchfriend,
Love from Canada. That was a good vent. I bet it felt good to let out some steam. Let me start by saying it sounds like you have a big heart and you're no stranger to pain. It's awesome you two fell for each other so quickly because it's very rare.
I'd like to offer a...
I know exactly what you mean about the negative pressure vacuum that replaced joy. It sucks in negativity and anxiety.
If I've felt joy or had interests, I can't remember them. What I've observed in others is that joy is in the moment, external, a preferential sense and related to a verb like...
Hey, I hope you're well. I was sexual abused as a child. So, I can relate. I just want to offer support.
Minus the physical sensations, I sometimes feel the way you described when I'm, for lack of a better word, triggered. It's just feels different than the adrenaline fuel flashbacks.
I also...
Thanks Friday. This is thoughtful. I like the idea is thinking of it as a game and taking the two-pronged approach of blowing-off/burning off. It's an new perspective. I really appreciate this. I'll let you know my time.
RussellSue, All of you gave me so much help and support so quickly that it...
Hi everybody,
My name is Chris. I'm new here and looking for guidance from others that have had success on their journey to recovery.
Three years ago before my 30th birthday the flashbacks began.
I had a traumatic childhood. I only remember fragments of my life. I know I was sexually abused...