I'm Out

[Adrienne12]

I want to say that I have found some really great people on here. And for every great person...there was an equally shitty one. I'm sorry but true story. This forum is not Match.com as I ran into that issue on here. I had one person admit to me that they didn't actually have PTSD.... They just wanted attention and have serious issues. No kidding.

And I have met people who are just too f-cking angry and bitter for my taste. We are all sufferig from this yet some believe they are the only ones in pain. If you think you are a piece of shit everyday...Guess what? You are going to be.

This forum is draining to me. Some people don't even try. And I don't want to hear bullshit about how you can't do it. I was left for f*cking dead and I DID it. No excuses.

To those of you I met on here with caring hearts....The ones who are writing about their pain but also writing positive things...thank you. Thank you for showing me that there is some hope.

Any suggestions for this site would be to hire a real therapist or counselor to come on here and ocassionaly post and give feedback. No offense but Anthony seems like a loose f-cking cannon which cracks me up. I am the same way. I get it. I just think this needs to be more structured. You allow someone who is full of anger to completely take a shit on someone else's head and it's acceptable?

You have people on here who are really sick. What if I was the kind of person who would committ suicide over something negative someone said to me on here? I think you guys need to be way more careful than you are. People's lives are literally in this forum's hands at time. Take your power seriosuly.

I am sure I will be deleted after this anyway and I could give two shits. I wish for those few good people I met on here to get better. Much peace and love.

 

[Heather]

You sound very angry. I am your friend and I love you. This is not the way to go about solving the problem. I am here for you Adrienne. Come and talk to me.

Hugs. Heather

 

[Adrienne12]

I sent you a msg. I am sure they are going to kick me off and I don't give a f*ck. You and a few others on here....I really hope the best for. You are good people. Love u too buddy. Take care of yourself.

 

[anthony]

Your wish is hereby granted... banned. Welcome to the www!

 

[Jestadud]

I'm sorry I never got to know you better because you seem like a complete arrogant ******* from the posts that I have read of your's, yet there is a part of me that hopes nobody is that stupid.

Never mind there is always another conspiracy to buy into just around the corner.

 

[ronin47]

I'm sorry you're so upset Adrienne. If this forum is making you angry then by all means, find alternatve modes of expression. Honestly I get a little puzzled when people describe this forum as hostile or defaming in any way. Maybe that's because before I came here I was participating in a religious forum so I've probably been desensitized a bit :rolleyes:.

 

[Heather]

you seem like a complete arrogant *******.

That's just it though she's NOT! Completely far from it. I don't know what set her off to behave like that.
Don't get me wrong her rant in the Bin Laden thread in my opinion is completely off base and preposterous. But she's a good girl.

Maybe nobody else will but I'M GOING TO MISS HER.

 

[The Albatross]

Well frig, I'm really gonna miss you Adrienne, and appreciated your comment today on my diary. I have no idea how this all happened. Ack.

 

[Mr. Smith]

I was told, to avoid conflict never talk about Religion, Sex, or Politics. But yet those seem to be the most interesting to people.

I also like how Jestadud is a "Premium Supporter" and yet said this?

I'm sorry I never got to know you better because you seem like a complete arrogant ******* from the posts that I have read of your's, yet there is a part of me that hopes nobody is that stupid.

Never mind there is always another conspiracy to buy into just around the corner.

Makes you wonder about authority and stuff, well it does me....

 

[anthony]

Everyone has bad days, but at the end of the day, every single person owns their actions, and those actions have no requirement to be brought here upon this forum and taken out upon the forum, myself, staff or another, as they have chosen to do, all of which I have no idea really why... other than, their having a bad day.

I get the distinct impression apparently I am personally supposed to give my attention to this member, hence their comments towards myself and this forum, as I seem to randomize who I respond too and who I do not... this member I have not interacted with, provided support, PC'd, etc... why? Because even I get to choose who I respond to and who I do not.

There are already a myriad of counsellors, nurses, social workers, psychologists / psychology degree's upon this forum... all who respond in a non-official capacity due to legal requirements. This is a community forum, not a free therapy forum that you WILL get support from x, y & z persons. Some people get confused at times, Adrienne I feel fitting into this category possibly at present!!! Could be wrong... wouldn't be the first time... but it comes across to me like this.

I haven't been all that well for the last two weeks now, hence why I have not been around much or posting much on the forum. I am responsible for my own actions, and knowing when I am not the best, I don't respond or very little, ensuring that my mental health doesn't impede with my response. The same applies to members... if suicidal, if angry, etc... what you post or respond or interpret here is your responsibility, not that of another. Own your actions and DON'T post if your head is not in the best place at that given time.

 

[anthony]

I also like how Jestadud is a "Premium Supporter" and yet said this?

Makes you wonder about authority and stuff, well it does me....

Being a premium supporter has zero authority upon this forum... it is a title given to those who donate x to assist the running of the forum, nothing more, nothing less.

 

[Jestadud]

Very big of you Heather and I will probably feel awful for my response for the next few days, but I get absolutely fed up with people excusing their bad manners by " It's just an opinion " and it's not just Adrienne12.

There are things which are insulting, there are things which are offensive, which can be said in error or ignorance but once it has been pointed out if not taken back or if it's repeated then it is clearly meant to be an offensive insult.

But that's just my OPINION.