What Made You Angry Today?

[Changing4Best]

Britt and everyone, What's worse is that when I was 6 our playroom was converted into a huge diningroom, which we used daily yes, but which was especillay for their dinner parties. For these they had Lenoxware, real silverware, exquisite table cloths and so on. We didn't use those every day, of course, instead using regular old plates, flatware and cotton table cloths, etc.

Adding insult to injury, we were not allowed to sit on any of the livingroom furniture or walk on the front lawn. I wanted to be an artist when I grew up, but was only allowed to do my art in the basement. Really, we had nowhere to play either, except that basement. And it was all cement and stone, not comfortale at all.

All this burns me up too.

 

[Britt.f7]

(((Sheila)))

 

[Queen Boudica]

Memories of my mother and what a sick evil woman she was and how she damaged me so much.

I did have birthday parties but my birthday was at the beginning of October and my younger sister, by one year, was at the end. So my mother would do a combined birthday on my sister's birthday. She decided who to invite, no-one she disapproved of. I did not have any friends anyway, so it was always my sisters friends who were bullying me anyway.

They were controlled horrible parties. We were supposed to behave like perfect kids at the party. I remember once she did leave us to play and we played murder in the dark and she burst in furious because we were making too much noise and had switched off the lights and could be breaking something. The party was stopped and I was punished and had to do the washing up because of course I was the oldest and should have stopped any bad behaviour. So much for birthday parties.

 

[Bucky'sAngel]

My husband - who seems to think that the day-to-day household things simply appear. I am talking about things like laundry, and meals, etc. THEN can't figure out why I am so serious and focused while I am doing these things.

uh - they need to get done?

 

[Britt.f7]

My body misbehaving and my mind trying to sink me back into darkness. I'm fighting what I can, but it makes me angry. I can accept the body, but why can't my mind just stay happy...not even happy, just on an even keel.

 

[discarded]

That my husband has blocked all communication from me, our daughter's birthday is next week and I wanted to make plans.

 

[Britt.f7]

That my husband has blocked all communication from me

Oh this makes me mad when people do this and there are children involved. My ex sister in law didn't have her children call my brother the other day for his birthday. Just reminds me of my parent's behavior after their divorce!

I hope there is someone else who can get the message to him. You really shouldn't have to deal with that when kids are involved. Or any other time for that matter.

 

[Whitneys story]

@Discarded, I am so sorry! He is being an arse. Neither of you deserve this.

Might I recommend a new Special Birthday tradition be started. A special new place, or treat; something she has not done before that would be memorable.

Insensitive, selfish grrrr!

I do wish her a special day with mom! Behemoth Hugs, Whitney

 

[Whitneys story]

Last night I went to get Chinese food for dinner! Doh, they are never open on Monday. So one more trip to the grocery!

 

[Britt.f7]

Frustrated and irritated by how tired my body is despite having adequate reason for it to be tired. It's just not helping with my mindset right now which is spiraling down ward.

 

[NarcSis]

Being tailgated on the highway by a pickup pulling a snowmobile trailer....in a snowstorm. Very unsafe.

 

[BlackbirdSinging]

Once again having my "no" ignored. As if the word is customizable to only have it's true meaning applied when it doesn't have to do with someone else INSISTING that I do something THEY want me to. That's nice and everything but.. no is STILL a NEGATIVE response whether people like it or not. So.. ya.. that kinda triggers me :shifty:.