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Well Done.

What I don't understand is how a ptsd suffer can be with a person at the present time and then when they leave they can not be friends because of trust issues.This really does not make sense to me. If you don't trust somebody, you don't trust them. Am I missing something here.

Hi Tiger Kitten, we are all at this site for a reason, or we would not be here. Here is a million hugs :Hug_emoticon:, it's a good start to a zillion.

Hi CC I'm very proud and inspired by you. Why? Beacause you went down a road that not many people would, with love,compassion and a desire to help and heal. I'm a much stronger person than i was 5 months ago when i was introduced to PTSD's ugly head. I felt anger, betrayed, confussed and...

Happy Valentines Day to all.

I heard from my X by email today,she is at a very confussing point in her life right now. I told her I will stand behind her as a supportive friend in away that feels right to me, i will not enable her. Our relationship was over a long time ago, just took me time to see through the fog. I value...

I have a question about being diagnosed with PTSD.My x gf was daignosed in Jan 2009 with ptsd and was in therapy until March 2009 and then stopped therapy. She contacted me in July about getting together. When diagnosed with ptsd, does a suffer really know how serious of an illness this is? I...

She contacted me last week looking for something for her taxes. Don't take this as being cold but I just couldn't believe this, I helped this girl out when nobody elese would. I opened my home to her and did what ever I could, she didn't want to put any effort into makeing a relationship work, I...

Thank you, I'm here to learn and support.I really value what you say and everbody elese. I'm like a sponge, trying to absorb information for a better knowledge of ptsd from both sides of the fence.

When a suffer is triggered, is there anytime line with therapy that there ptsd comes under control.

Hi Carers and Suffers I hope everyone is taking care. I recently ended my relationship with my Suffer, it was her choice as she could not love me they way i needed and could not be in a relationship with anybody at this time in her words. I respect her decession but am a little confused as...

I'm also in Ottawa and would be very interested in this from a Carers point of view.

Hello Nicky31 I just wanted to say thank you for your knowledge and letting me know how a suffer does feel. My GF is with her mother and receiving counseling, she called me and we spoke for a few minutes. She is going to need time to get healthy, from your experience should i have no contact...

Should i let her know that i do stand behind her , or should i give her the time and space that she needs. I'm just really confused if i should try to communicate with her now, it is mostly by text now???? Thank you so much for you help.

Hi , my name is Rob. I was a healthy happy 38 year old male living a good stable life. I reconnected with an old neighbour 4 months ago on facebook, she contacted me. We emailed each other for communication for about a month and finally decided to meet. She drove 6 hours to see me for about 3...