Recent content by KA60

Went no contact with my father 2 days ago. Violated boundaries. Called saying he knew I had some problem. I said to.him no more. And I was not the only family member who had issues with him. Told him he did not follow any plan from therapists he saw in his past. He called again at a vulnerable...

My post is part political since malignant narcissism is part of the US. I started attending my rural community health council meeting. The council has been struggling. Conflicts arguments etc. The leader asked me to. I have been asked to join 3 times but have not. The leader is a retired nurse...

Well this is not positive but there is too much blaming being told just get over it etc. I have lost tolerance for it so my boundaries can be tough.

I clear my phone run security checks block emails block texts clean it all up. Perfectly normal to have agency over what we allow accept in our phones.

Welcome. Me too. Past trauma from family of origion past partners first husband - deceased 2012. Codependency.

Welcome. I hope this forum.provies you help and support..I understand your distrust of others.

Very good idea. I did that in the past..i am reading more again- books country sampler magazines..also I need more sleep and just rest quiet time..

I was on Facebook. Now I am off. I have done research on algorhthms and AI effects on brain nervous system. I think Facebook can trigger anger in me. The reading on Facebook is not linear. Jumping from pictures threads etc..i plan to not resume my use of it. It is overwhelming.

Thank you so much.

Today August 29 would have been my mother's 89th birthday. She died on November 13 2021. Today I realize I don't miss her. She was an Enabler a codependent among many things. Controlling. In denial. My father is still alive and also 89. I don't think I will miss him eithet..

Welcome. Had trauma early childhood from dysfunctional controlling family. My ptsd - official at age 53 after craniotomy to remove abcess left temporal lobe of my brain from bacterial meningitis..Prior to then misdiagnosed by psychiatry overmedicated etc..My illness was catastrophic-...

Yes. Thank you sideways. I fully expect him to violate my boundaries. This is my father. With me other family members. A bully with traits of narcissism. Now he and I are grey rock. I am the one calling if I want to talk to him. If he brings up topics besides the weather asks questions or makes...

My father in a phone conversation with me 2 days ago asked me about my husbands and I relationship and our finances. This is his pattern with me other family members many of whom are deceased or scattered across the US. I live 1900 miles away. Today I called him told him I will not accept any...

Thank you. I have not done this yet not sure how. I will try or just ignore these posts.

No means no. Leave this site. I am not a top member etc but you are harassing us.