Recent content by KA60

You are welcome. Once I went to 2 churches whose teachings did not support best practices in medicine. I had to leave.

And I have no control over his grand daughter. But hypervigilance= illness death disability loss of relationships legal issues etc.

I have ptsd ftom catastrophic illness cardiopulmonary arrest..Transgenerational trauma ftom my family of origion. Husband is a veteran. He believes in hypervigilance..I just asked him to some how assure me he would not react when the better response would be not reacting pause stop..He is...

Update my fsther. Fathers day. Hard work me reviewing enmeshment. Definitely happened to me..So today I called my father just to wish him happy father's day. I know before hand to limit topics. We just briefly discussed the weather. He lives in MO. I Live in NM. In my earlier post I mentioned he...

I read your post earlier but now just having time to respond. I have had hypothyroidusn since 1990 most likely caused by being prescribed lithium. I had quite a history of being over prescribed by psychiatry. I was not bi polar. Or any other of the diagnosis given me. What really happened-...

I do have empathy for your pain and suffering but I don't have anything to offer. My trauma came from enmeshment codependency dysfunctional family dynamics first now deceased husband addiction to online porn. Working as nurse. Then catastrophic illness involving cardio pulmonary arrest. I had...

I have 2 dogs pitbulls who are my legal ESAs. My therapist or psychiatrist issues me the letter yearly. However here in the US they just altered that ruling. We own an rv rent the lot. It is a very small pa rk basically private. In the past when I rented an apt I was exempt from a pet deposit...

Thank you.

Thank you. That helps me a lot. I need to work with my thinking - CBT DBT. I need to relisten to podcasts from Tim Fletcher Teri Cole on enmeshment trauma. Relearn review these dynamics. I do not want nor expect any inheirtance. My mother is dead. He lives 1900 miles away. He is having to use...

The guilt and shame come from being overmedicated by psychiatry for diagnoses that were not valid. Depression bipolar etc when it was all rooted in dysfunctional family dynamics. I became codependent a people pleaser very anxious etc. What should have occurred much sooner then it did- was...

I have childhood teenage adult enmeshment traums behind my ptsd and catastrophic illness in 2014. I am not going to blame mom dad family of origion forever. I refrained it to cause effect correlation long ago so I could coperate with my physicians therapists etc and take responsibilty for...

My apologies to all for my posts

Hey. I have 2 dogs. They are my ESAs. Posts about sexual activity with dogs is re traumatizing for me. What good are posts from the community if the person who originated the post has not indicated they took any initiative to work on himself or herself? Where are boundaries here saying no? I am...

I like your cimment regarding meeting your needs by helping addicts. I can apply it to me. With codependency in my trauma history I need to be sure now that I care for myself my husband my dogs first. That my oxygen mask stays on all the time if necessary.

Any history of head trauma concussions TBI neuroloogical surgery seizure activity? Have you had a physical exam blood work by a primary care provider?