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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    Sorry it's been so long and I'm here being needy again I have sent some emails to T to keep her updated on what's going on with me and sent her a text after to let her know it was sent. (She has said she wants this) I've done a lot of thinking. Life has happened. And now, tomorrow I "see"...
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    Is your PTSD Cup size changing?

    My stress cup is shrinking. I don't know how I'd be managing if I wasn't working (at a veterinary clinic). But I've been seeing a really shitty side to people. Two days ago I saw a coworker screamed at, because a lady who was early for her appointment had to wait outside. Screaming. We are...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    I did something hard and went with my gut and not what T or some others and suggested and canceled T for Christmas eve. And I think it was right. I'm dealing with December PTSD stuff. I'm dealing with work short staffing issues. I'm dealing with school. I'm not all twisted about my relationship...
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    Christmas time ......

    This is the very worst time of year for me. And I used to feel so much of the feelings you do. I finally cut contact with my bio-family because the abuse was continuing and because it was just too triggering. And... over time, my feelings have eased. I still sometimes have that ache. That wish...
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    What Are You Grateful For Today?

    As always the critters that share my life with me. And the critters who pass through the clinic And my coworkers And the winter solstice And the sun, that will rise once again in a bit giving us llight.
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    I will give a better reply when I can think a bit better. The last couple days have ground me down. Right now, all I want is to not have to see her on Christmas eve. We can sort stuff out at our January appointments. I told her I'd let her know today if I was canceling for sure. I need to just...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    Well, to be fair, there's been some *brief* slips since then. Nothing like what happened a year ago. And yes, I get expressing concern. To me that isn't felt like what happened. And I get that she missed emails. But what it felt like is I got blasted with "I can't help you" and "you aren't...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    ok, I just need to suck it up. accept what's happening. fine /// @Sideways I guess I should have asked. Was the issues with your T (phrasing poorly) when you were in the harmful bdsm relationship or later?
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    So yeah, maybe I'm just distorting everything and lying to myself. The thing is what she is holding on to and traumatized about is from a year ago. And when she reacted like that a year ago, I took it onboard and stopped what I was doing. I get that T's are only human. And I'm not saying she's...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    Yesterday I had the psych nurse appointment. That went well. Then talked to T. Not in a good place today. Don't know how much of that is PTSD stuff since it's my triggery time, how much is just being drained from the appointments yesterday and how much is from the conversation with T. At first...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    So, T and I have been talking some via phone. We are going to talk tonight and then decide if we keep the 24th. @TruthSeeker Christmas eve, Christmas day and my birthday are my biggest PTSD triggers. I just don't want to add stress to already stressful days. Is too hard. The emails have...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    I guess a bit, but not a lot helpful with that of late. Part of that is because I haven't seen her much. Part of that is because of the last set of misunderstandings. // She sent me a super long email. I don't really know what to think of it and it got everyone all noisy. It was better than...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    I guess I haven't been completely honest with my T or myself. A part of my instability of late has been the uncertainty I've felt over my relationship with my T. It's certainly not all of it or even most. But it's added to stress and confusion. I don't want to end my relationship with her, but...
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    Therapy problems- T misunderstanding or I'm lying to myself (long)

    Maybe I haven't given a fair representation of her side though? And I know I'm all over the place right now on this. I just... she helped so much in the past. And she really is very kind. I don't get how things could have changed. I guess I have another question. she'd sent us an email with a...
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