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thank you for your so authentic answer. I wish you the very best in life. with my true compassion

give you some gratitude because at least you realize the state you are numbed in. So this is good because maybe before, you didn't notice that you were living such states. I usually try to go back to the event that triggered me in this state and try to deconstruct like piece by piece, second by...

for those who met already a new relationship, what is the first step to become visible to the outer world in order to attract a relationship ? How did you connect ? I try via Apps as we cannot meet in person right now but it seems like a never ending hopeless thing

Thank you for the hugs 😊, they are always welcome

yes I totally agree. We are attracted by similar people that remind us our caregivers, hoping that they will finally accept and recognize us one day. Which will never be the case because we pick the wrong ppl. thanks for sharing the fact that you met a lovely person and that therapy helps/works

hello, I know how hard it is to have miscarriage. I also personally experience this as well as I gave birth to a premature child who died 9 days after birth. I was wondering why should I experienced all those issues. My conclusion was that life already gave me some signs upfront that I had...

I also feel the same... the banner on my forehead that does not allow me to meet normal and nice people. But I think that due to my PTSD, I'm probably not able to just simply see and go to normal people because they don't feel like "home". This happens at the inconscious level. So it's not...

yes this is crazy how circles are formed and how we can be excluded without notice and knowing why. Sometimes I'm tired to be the first to call. I would like to be called too. Sometimes I wonder if I have to show more vulnerability or shout out loud that I'm also a human being and that I...

hello All, I'm writing you from Europe as here I haven't found any kind of group support for PTSD (so sorry for my English). I'm writing this post because it's becoming more and more difficult for me to believe that one day I will find just a correct partner (I'm not dreaming about the perfect...