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    General Managing It His Way.

    Hi Amethist, I'm glad that you knew your husband before PTSD and that it is not a lifelong struggle for him. Also, I'm glad my comments were of some help even as a measure of how heathy it is. As I explained in my post I have come from a living hell of complex PTSD first with family and then...
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    Research Research Project Help?

    What support are you getting and from where? I lived in Toronto 5 years ago and found it impossible to get affordable PTSD treatment. I also experienced with different counseling centers, psychology & psychiatrist initial assessments & finally a Sinai Hospital psychologist that they challenged...
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    I Cant Live Like This Anymore

    Hi, You say 'All I know is that I didn't do this to me' and I cannot imagine anyone would deny it. But I think you know a lot more than you can begin to express from so much pain. Those who insist you 'count your blessings that "you survived" are obviously reacting to the horror of what you are...
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    Acceptance

    I am completely new here...so obviously I did not know you 'went away.' The reason I'm here is that I could not find a face-to-face support group. I've always found it disturbing that alcoholics & narcotic abusers can have personal support, but many of us, who were their victims, cannot without...
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    General Managing It His Way.

    Hi, I am a survivor of what I call fixed PTSD, that means abuse was my point of origin and starting over makes everything feel like a new beginning. It can be discouraging, and at times, futile. I do not know to what degree you husband suffers from the disorder, but be wary of presuming...
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    General To Help Avoid The Trigger Or To Help By Letting The Trigger Happen

    Hi, I recognize that to someone who does not have PTSD this question is valid. To partners it is a healthy way of determining which action to take, how to feel about their partner and whether they can sustain the relationship. To the person with PTSD this question can seem dishonest and...
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    General All Alone

    Hi, You are not alone! I recommend you read "Trauma & Recovery" by Judith Herman, M.D. This is not a "self-help" book but a exploration of PTSD in an historical context from domestic violence to military and political terror. As a survivor with PTSD it is one of the few books I found resonance...
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