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Is it possible he is not prepared? He told me he had experience with similar background person...Can you ask that from another person? Feel like I'm doing everything around that when I really do not want to, but I know with this need to be careful... So I'm trying to with my best knowledge...

Momofthree you say the good supporter work threw it with you... How? I feel myself so stupid to ask that... Probably I should know it... Oh and why or what I'm doing to he says "you are always betting on your team"?

He almost always says to me I'm making up the things and I'm not listening... Is it possible I can't listen? I know there were time when I just had a switch off button, but no clue why and he get me back ... Okay so he isn't good... I think I got it... I would like to test out something... How I...

Who you would say a supporter? What does a good supporter do? Or more likely how? But the good ones too can get enough and fed up and angry? What is makes him bad? Does that his attitude will damaging me more?

No I'm not in therapy I'm waiting to be in one - they said is max 6 weeks :/

So okay that's right - the positives - when he have energy for it - I supose or patience or time - or all together - so the conditions are right. We can talk seriously about mostly any topics, we can disgust things what I never could with other. Sometimes when he gets it in exhausted and he is...

Hmmmm... How I start that - so first my faults - I didn't realise how much is effected me my past in the present - my ex/partner says I can't exist in not abusive way. And constantly abuse the things and waiting his time. On December I got a nerve break closed up for a night into a psycho...

I think the main point don't get knot up with it- you can't relax if you want to force yourself to now "I must relax" or for me not works...

I gone threw with that, but hmmmm maybe sounds strong, but I dealt with it differently ... I felt is coming and no control of it, trying to control it down and is just gets worse...my solution was went to the bathroom - no lights - darkness mostly closed the door and flipping let it out. Kills...

I have been in that situation - did you say that to your spouse? Does she mentioned to you? First you need to calm yourself down... Don't think of it, slowly will disappear and is helps if you talk with your spouse about it - he will appreciated and will make you calm, or if you did the talk...

Hmmm ... I'm sort of similar situation, I realised at myself to I do harm for the close lived person, because my trauma was from a member of a family- which unconsciously made to react my mind who seems cares about me will happen the same and will get just hurt... Is horrible difficult to brake...

Bath with candles (a lot ), reading book, do something creative- any mini stuff can do - like now I'm trying the glass paint(not looks great, but will get better)...or baking ... hugs useful too and to talk with friends ^.^ who you not feel yourself weird alien Oh and what chill me out walks...

For me sounds good...

I'm free every Saturday or I can make Friday afternoon around 15-16.00 depends where would be. And the rest of my days only know on Sunday... Which day would be the best? For others? .who else can and would come?

Nowadays in quite try to get over with the ptsd- and reading a book about ww1 and the shell shock... Don't get me wrong, is not like what we have isn't tthat serious... But can somebody explain to me what's the main difference is you get that own isolation in adulthood and when you get in...

That's sounds good ^.^ if you know the exact date I'm happy to even ask that day/ afternoon of from my boss... Only Sunday's which are unmanageable ^.^ for me ^.^

Okay ... Sounds far, but sure ^.^

Thanks ... Virtually I accept the hug, but in real life I'm afraid to be hugged my males. Nothing personal ^.^ side effect of the childhood And yes I would be happy to meet. Please let me know ^.^ would be great if it's possible in London ^.^

Hello, I'm not sure is there any meetings between you guys. But I'm wondering is there any? Or can we organise one - I'm living in London south west and the past is massively reached me to destroyed everything around me. And see nothing or very little around me... Would be nice to meet up with...