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Make sure she knows it's not her fault that it's him. I'm so sorry.

It's not only harder on you but it's harder on any kids involved. They don't understand why daddy should be there but isn't. Please just do what is best for you and the kids and not him. Let him deal with his own stuff.

I didn't chase anything. We were passing them as they were catching the snakes. You are making alot more out of this than it is. Bottom line...if I didn't think it was a problem I didn't believe the boy I wouldn't have posted here. You're reading waaaaaay more into this than you should. To me...

It had nothing to do with me personally. If I only cared about everything that effected me personally I'd be one crappy person.

Have you been diagnosed with PTSD? Who diagnosed you? Have they been helping you through all of this?

I have never heard of a non-denominational church practicing such things. I would report it.

I make my husband so mad with this one. I haven't gotten to the effort to change that part yet, especially when my daughter is now married to the spawn of Satan. ( Ok not really but you know)

I'm sorry you're struggling so much. What do you need right now?

I have been to Christian therapists and I have never heard of what you described. Do you know the denomination your mother practices?

Just curious but did they check her for blood clots?

Yes and I would love to hear the answers too.

A stroke was my first thought when I saw what you wrote. Thank God she is already in care, keep us posted on her status. How are you doing?

Thank you. I just started reading that website and it's great. I appreciate it. I have that book on kindle now too.

No what I am saying is that perceptions as a child isn't the same as they are as an adult. That is what I am saying.

That's just an example. I have no idea how long he spanked you for. The point is to a three year old a short amount of time feels like forever. Ok so then, now what? What are you looking for? You don't want anybody to give you any other possibilities so then what do you want?

One more thing. If both of these were one time incidents, and then much later you developed your fetish, what makes you think they are related? Could it possibly be you would have developed it regardless? This is why you really really need to be in therapy. Someone needs to help you figure all...

At 3-4 years old, if you aren't used to being spanked, ANY spanking could have felt more painful than it actually was. Also at 3-4 years old concept of time is off so two minutes could feel like twenty. Keep all that in mind.

Not everybody goes through and reads the whole thread.

I'm not sure but my guesses are... Suicidal tendencies, self harm, impulsiveness, fear of abandonment, mood swings She hasn't told me though. I'm just guessing since I know her.

Thank you I will look into it

My daughter has been diagnosed with borderline personality traits. I don't know a whole lot about it and need to know how to relate to her when she's having trouble. Any ideas?

Why do you ask?

This link was within the article I already posted. This is specific to childhood trauma Chronic pain and childhood trauma - Harvard Health Blog

When I'm in particularly bad shape I don't feel alot of anything be it emotional or physical pain. When I'm more moderate, I'll get some pain ( varies what that means) and the more tense and anxious I am the worse it is.

I’m in pain, so why is my doctor suggesting a psychologist? - Harvard Health Blog I think it makes alot of sense. I know for me the more tense/anxious I am the more pain I deal with. The more I can learn to let some things go or learn to ground, the better I feel physically. <modEdit - posts...