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Something really bothering me is my wife saying "were disowning" him. It is like the fact the that he is in denial allows her to be in denial. My daughter was in tears last night when we told her he would not be able come over and buly her any more. He didn't care at all. My younger son is...

No support, many of our family and local law enforcement thinks counselling is bull. I don't see any options, I am christian and pray about all this. My ptsd is so bad I trust no one in real life! Raj

Now we are really having fun fighting with each other I am so sad. I am a real waste of space.

Total denial of anything done wrong in past or present, paid lip service to our requests. Nothing new here, I hope wife keeps resolve. Taking care of other two teens needs and my own issues this makes the earthquakes we have all the time a nice distraction. Wife used to be verbally abusive she...

We have agreed to limit contact to public visits and no contact with sister, unless she wants contact. Also any and all abusive behaviour will be reported and end visits. We also are going ask that he seeks counseling. Raj

I feel banning is in order wife disagrees, very concerned. He is following a similar path to his biological father showing aggresion and devolping sexual aggresion and aggression period towards women.

We are in a very rural community, hitting and rib breaking four years ago. Counseling was option we chose we thouhgt violence control improved, recently he threatened his boss. Resources here are not great. When he was minor enforcement kept telling us it cwas a phase and football players are...

He refuses counseling, when younger we did not give a choice when younger. Violence included hitting brother forvnot groping an breaking my ribs during verbal argument. Raj

Our 19 year old, Oppositional Defiant son is harrasing our daughter. She is 15 and has mild Cerebral Palsy and he when he visits he calls her names and now strokes her hand in very creepy way. He is way into porn and has groped his brother 16 and tried to get brother to grope him about four...

My oldest sister grabbed my behind all the time into my freaking twenties and nobody cared and usually didn't believe me! I should of decked here by avoided her and now no contact at all. My stepsister only a little olfer, but very sexual and twisted did all kind of weird stuff wanted to...

Getting healed for me would mean going bankrupt to get out of rent own deal with parents. This happened after my previous home caught on fire with all the wiring smoking in the walls. Tried to just get a reference for rentals they pushed the you'll be safer in house (fear is a monster in...

Thanks for your very much for your service Silkleaves! I would not be free to complain, without all of our military end of story! This is a side note, but I really love the Coast Guard. Does the fact a lot of them are state side or "just" do rescue or vessel checks mean they are less brave...

Lucycat, I understand what you are saying. I have not been a nurse so I do not know what they deal with. I have seen Doctors be as off base as the nurse was with me telling other E.M.T's your patients should be exactly this type of condition when they arrive to the ER. One of the Doc's...

Recently when I got set up for a new General Physician the Stupid LPN told me "there is no way you can have PTSD that is only for soldiers"! I wanted to scream I was so mad. Between abuse of all kinds, being an E.M.T. and being Reserve Deputy I feel like a poster-boy for just of the few...

I just started Ativan today. When I was a child I would hide in my room and in closets if people were coming to visit and then after abuse started I would hide from girls and women as my sister, mother and grandmother were my first three abusers. My groups are always better one or two only...

My Psychiatrist says I have had life long severe Social Phobia. I like to self diagnose a lot and I was thought I was a little autistic, he says no. He said this may or my not be related to my head injury but is "enhanced by my abuse"! I have had extreme fear of crowds since early child...

I returned to the forum after along absence due to extremes flashbacks and nightmares. Tried therapy one therapist switched out after just a few sessions and the next said He had more sympathy for abusers (he was more of a recovering alcoholic and drug counselor guy than PTSD guy) than...

For me it is mixed. I understand more of myself yet I now I am also over analyzing everything I do.

Really paranoid since starting therapy and PSR. Everything is triggering me! Noises, rude people, people with the same names as abusers, smells, the slightest pressure from my spouse. When a car goes by I analyze to see if it is a threat or safe. I sat in the car instead of going into the...

Today I am very thankful that I am finally receiving PSR help for my anxiety and possibly even some extra medical help for my Epilepsy (semi out of control currently) after eight months of struggling with feeling ignored. It is like being able to breathe again. I am also thankful to realize...

I can really relate to this. I have had medical problems all my life and been told by my mother all my life what a burden I am. Today even as an adult I still feel like burden to my wife and children. I hit my self in the head and except every bad thing that comes my way because I deserve...

Hearing these statements has even helped me. I continue to be abuse along with my poor wife. Currently by a violent teenage son. We are definitely not letting it happen and do everything currently to stop it and even seek help for the abuser, including legal punishment! In the past we have...

I think I gave myself a concussion from hitting my head with my fist and breaking a picture with my head. I see a new counselor Friday. Life is way too much me lately. Mental health care sure needs more focus and rapid response in Idaho. Eight months is and three different tries at it is...

I trust my wife and for me that is even scary at times, other than her I will never be able to trust another human being again. Too many relationships have backfired.

Trying to focus on the four of us that are still a functioning family unit and praying for the one that wants to be in lala land! It is just so , so very sad and I am already feeling like a big enough loser.