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Dear Wife Of I do wish you all the best - we sound very simular too - sadly. I wanted to say be careful of NLP - you will need to get a top NLP person to work with. I have studied myself and after 3 days I am allowed to say I am a practioner!!! One NLP guy said he could help - he is £10K...

Thank you so much Heidi - It is a loong post! I have also taken your words on board - I am not complacent about their friendship but feel happier about it now. Thank so much!! Sunshine

Sure Darran - any info you can post here too so others can also read??? How can you help?? With sufferers or supporters?? BW Sunshine

I wanted to share that the 'girl - friend' came round with her young son before Xmas - she is a really lovely woman. We all had a super time. She is from Poland and said that she nows feels as though she has met her new English best friend - me!! She bought pressies for my son and then even...

Thanks for posting Jim and I do wish you all the very best. It is such a horrible illness and one that is really not dealt with or understood - even by the 'experts'. My hubby finds that focusing on something postive helps - I know of someone else that found healthy eating helped too. Is...

Thanks for sharing Toria - We are self employed too - my hubby gets MEGA stressed about money - well lack of it. When you say dreaming of packing you 3 up is that including hubby??? I still want to be with my hubby - I am tired and wiped out with his PTSD though :O( With thanks sunshine x

Thanks ladies - I am thankful for your replies and sad of course too that you have had this. Hubby said that he just doesnt want to struggle through another day - he is wiped out with these lows..... I am scared.... With thanks for being there Sunshine

I wondered - Over Xmas I managed to switch off from work and hubby did really well. I wonder is this because it was Christmas or to do with the fact that I was not wrapped up with work? The thing is that I must work otherwise we would never pay the bills and buy food. He says that he wants...

Thank you again for your insightful words Amethist. I am checking in tonight for the first time since before Xmas. Hubby has been suffering albeit much more mildy over the past 10 years - the recent hit and run has taken everything to another level. He did well over Xmas - The husband I...

Thank you to everyone who has commented on this. We have not had a repeat performance although hubby just seems to always be cross with our son. I know he is a trigger and hope that it can and will get better. I spent all day trying to sort things out after another slump at that started last...

Hi Sue Hi Can't Cope Its my first time on the forum since before Xmas - Just wanted reply and say hello to you both. BW Sunshine x

Thank you Amethist - Have taken on board xxxx

Hiya I wanted to let you know that I just went downstairs and apologized to hubby. I said that I am sorry and if he felt that an hour playing the Playstation is what he needed while our son was with nanny then thats fine. I know that keeping fit and working on his new career is vital...

Thanks Eleanor - I did read the info and it is amazing. Today has been stressful - and it is 2 years to the day of the hit and run car accident too. We just got back from seeing the new psychiatrist and hubby told me it is going to be alright, he will get better. He is going to get his...

Dear all I thought I would share this link - no matter what your beliefs I feel that these stories will help - I hope so as they are helping us. I also bought the audio book and sometimes when I can sleep or have been woken up by hubby sleepwalking etc I listen to these positive stories on...

Brilliant simplekindofgirl - thank you for telling me about that super thread - it has really helped. I agree with all what you have said - I am GUTTED that the words were directed at my little boy - would my hubby tell me a barefaced lie??? Would PTSD make you lie? We have always been VERY...

This is brilliant and has really helped me. I do feel that its fear stopping us - for me its the fear that my hubby will do something very stupid. I do love my husband - but not what he has become. Its so alien to me and my way of thinking. I am doing all what I can for my family & have...

Thanks so much for your super words and advice. At the moment hubby is saying that he doesn't know what he wants - It is too much effort to keep trying on getting better. I have said that I am excited about our future - him building a new career, us going on lovely holidays, seeing our son...

Thanks so much everyone - and Maze I will get this book too. Hubby feels very down today - we are going to see a new psychiatrist (NHS) so hoping this will help. I asked him again today and he said that he DID NOT say that at all. A very horrible situation as I dont know who to believe...

Thank you amazing Amethist. Its quite amazing as my hubby reduced his anti depressant from 60 to 20 - perhaps the same one??? He did start to feel much better. Then he didnt and they advised to take it to 30 This is when we are now seeing him go down again. Hubby has also mentioned...

Dear super people. By the time I had paid in the shop and got into the car our 5 year old son as crying his eyes out. "Daddy said I am a FXXXing idiot" Now hubby said that this was completely untrue he did not say this. My son was really crying and shouted "You are a liar daddy you did...

Hi Newbie My I am going through something very simular with my hubby. He could be on a huge downer and then I see that he has sent a fun email to a friend, With me he cant even talk. He has said that with others they dont know of his PTSD and this even lead to him having feelings for...