2015 Kris Kringle Gift Opening

[Sammyiam]

Wow how did you find that out ?

It's fine I don't mind waiting, KP and I can have our very own late KK opening :p

Thank you for your help
Sammy

 

[KP the nut]

KP and I can have our very own late KK opening

I think we may have to. Well, they do say good things come to those who wait x

 

[ms spock]

Not long now!

 

[StarChild]

Dear @Sammyiam and dear @KP the nut, I will light a special candle for you, to send you an extra bunch of hope and anticipation. And to show your KK-parcels the fastest way to your homes. :tup: My heart sits with you both and waits together with you. :hug::):hug:

 

[Sammyiam]

I have just had a ring from my surgeon and he wants to operate on my shoulder on the 11 th of December ( only 7 days notice ) so I think everything is not going my way in the KK department. I am not sure how I will be the next day. The hospital doesn't have internet so hopefully nothing goes wrong with the operation and I will be home safe in my bed. I'm a little scared of what happens if I don't wake up from the operation. It really scares me to think I might not wake up, I wouldn't have to take any more stress meds I suppose. Sorry for making such a mess of the KK this year.

 

[Anrish]

@Sammyiam : You're not making any mess. Thinking of you and wishing for you that your operation will turn out fine. You're a strong person and you can do it. :hug:

 

[StarChild]

Dear @Sammyiam, please, stop it. Not everything that happens or that don't goes smoothly is your fault! Simply not! Stop giving in to your inner abuser, please.

hopefully nothing goes wrong with the operation and I will be home safe in my bed.

As someone who had several operations, including both shoulders, I'd like to tell you, that the best preparation is, to have a bit trust /faith, that all will go nice and easy. A good positive affirmation could be; "Everything goes very well, and I will heal fast and I will feel very good." You can pm me any time you want, okay Sammy?

 

[ms spock]

Good luck with your operation @Sammyiam! So pleased they can get you so quickly.

Personalisation and emotional reasoning are two distorted thinking patterns I use a lot. You might want to have a little read here. https://www.myptsd.com/threads/name-that-distorted-cognition-thought-perception.54277/ Those pesky distorted thoughts and self blaming feelings make things pretty difficult.

 

[KP the nut]

@Sammyiam, gentle hugs coming your way. Wishing you well for your op. Last year, I had the same fears before I had an op. Perfectly normal but then add PTSD into the mix. Talk to your surgeon and nurse so that they know how you feel. (((HUGS)))

 

[Nicolette]

Just dropping in. Looks like KK is this weekend. Enjoy and remember to post photos of your gifts!

 

[Anrish]

@Nicolette : Thank you for your support. :) ....already looking forward to Saturday night here...:D

 

[Deleted member 12723]

The gift opening is only four days away. Wow time sure flies. I will not be able to make it to the gift opening but I know all of you will have so much fun.