Keys and locked doors, lights on or off when they shouldn't have been, things out of place, a strange car on the street. These are all things that people who have had issues of DV or abuse may well feel. I hate to say it Desi, but your reaction sounds completely normal to me....*heavy sigh*. I had a meltdown just over a month or two ago about a cigarette butt that was somewhere it shouldn't have been. I am really glad you had the support you did and it was great you were able to dodge the extra meds/EMS route. Great job!