General Blame Game

[HarleyQuinn]

Well, I did it. I said something to my husband today about what has been going on with him and... he blamed me. Telling me that I am the one with a problem. That if things don't go my way or are what I had planned for the day that everyone else in the wrong that day.
Is this to be expected? I don't have time to write the whole situation out right now, I will try and post tonight with all of the details. But, I stood my ground and I'm not letting myself feel bad about saying something.

 

[amethist]

Hi HarleyQuinn.

I have read your post above, and do understand what you are going through.

He is blaming anything and anyone, so he does not have to face and take responsibility of what is going on with himself right now.

You did the right thing by standing your ground, not letting him cross boundaries such as this is important.

I will write more later.

Take care.

Amethist