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anthony
Founder
The degree is not the answer to solve a persons problem. The answers come from a person who has experience, who has knowledge, who is educated in real life, not theoretical modelling. Aged are usually better because they have experience, however; aged persons also are often stuck in their way. Younger people are often more open, though less experienced. Degree means nothing with therapy.... often the best therapy is gained from friends and family, none of which have a degree, they just know you and have life experience.
I went through this same argument with myself years ago.... and after researching by trial and error I found the best help for me came from those who felt what I felt, though could express themselves with those feelings to help me understand. This is exactly why groups exist... AA, drugs, rape, anxiety, depression, etc etc.... gaining real life experience and knowledge from those who feel what you feel, though maybe they can express some aspect that you're looking to identify. Identification allows us to correct the problem, or find a realistic solution.... not fix, just solve and change.
I went through this same argument with myself years ago.... and after researching by trial and error I found the best help for me came from those who felt what I felt, though could express themselves with those feelings to help me understand. This is exactly why groups exist... AA, drugs, rape, anxiety, depression, etc etc.... gaining real life experience and knowledge from those who feel what you feel, though maybe they can express some aspect that you're looking to identify. Identification allows us to correct the problem, or find a realistic solution.... not fix, just solve and change.