Kintsugi
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I have a lot of trouble with this. I think my mute periods (which are overwhelmingly frequent) stem from a combination of what has been said here. I definitely do it when I don't want to cry, and I definitely do it when I'm not ready to "go deep," I guess.
Sometimes it's easier for me to talk about the worst parts of my abuse than it is to talk about things that were secondary to the abuse. I really struggle with stuff that would be considered tangential to the actual trauma, perhaps because I have less practice "going there."
Sometimes it's easier for me to talk about the worst parts of my abuse than it is to talk about things that were secondary to the abuse. I really struggle with stuff that would be considered tangential to the actual trauma, perhaps because I have less practice "going there."