I Feel Like Nobody Can Help Me And Nobody Wants To.

[HelenB]

That is so good to hear. I am praying for real trust, openness and honesty within your relationship and that as you both work towards healing you can really be restored and that you can also grow closer as you journey this together.

God bless
Helen

 

[ms spock]

I was emotionally abused and neglected. He still couldn't get it. I was more surprised when I saw him reading the posts. He kept on for a couple hours. Nothing got in his way he was really into reading. That was so not like him. Long story short it's been a couple days. He told me he can see now why he's been so distant. He came from a family that was very neglectful. He never got hugs, or I love you's. He said it was all so comfortable to just keep silent and not expect anything from anybody. Then nobody gets hurt. Wow.

That is a big realisation.

My daughter signed him up just like she did with me. I told him not to tell me who he is on here. That way he can be open and honest with out me getting into his way. Like I usually do. The bottom line is now were talking a little more. And were speaking the same language... Its like we just met. And were both a mess. No walls just brutal honesty. Its kind of scary. But I feel a hope I haven't felt in a very long time. And I know this is the real deal.I won't take it to fast. One day at a time sometimes it's one minute at a time. The ground feels real unstable. I don't know whats going to happen, but I know its going to be positive.

That is very wise to take it slowly. Are you both seeing a psychologist for yourselves? It is great that you feel hope.

 

[SarahRuth]

I am so sorry you are going through such a difficult time, but your idea about your husband and communication is brilliant! I'm in your corner praying that you and your family reach the healing goals you all are working toward. Hopefully, my family and I will get there too. Best wishes.