Relationship Is It Me?

[Grasshoppa]

I really miss my suffer, I have not giving up on him or us. But sometimes I feel it is me he is running from. I really feel bad when I think like that. Sorry just wanted to let that out. I have not reached out to him, I am giving him his space. But sometimes I think back on all the fun we had and how great he was to me, and I say to myself. How can you just turn that off and act like you don't even know i am here. Hurts like hell but I am going to get thru this hurt.

 

[Linzee]

I really miss my suffer, I have not giving up on him or us. But sometimes I feel it is me he is runn...

Hi @Grasshoppa didn't want to leave you hanging. I really feel for you, some days seem easier than others to get through don't they...my sufferer can only text at the moment but I realise how big a deal that is for him.
Life can certainly be lonely as a supporter. If you had such a great connection and things between you were good I don't think he's specifically running from you but rather his feelings towards you. Almost like he can't believe a great girl like you would choose him?

I don't think he's turned 'off' turned 'down' maybe but he won't have forgotten all the fun times too. He's just trying to cope with the bad stuff too.

You will get through it, how long since your last contact?

 

[Snowflakes]

@Grasshoppa I want to say the same things that @Linzee said too.

I think we all miss the fun times before PTSD grabbed both sufferer and supporter and turned our lives upside down and sideways. Every once and while, my sufferer will look at me and say wistfully she wished it could be like it used to be. So Linzee is right.....they remember too.

Take care

 

[Deadman]

This -

she wished it could be like it used to be

This

 

[Grasshoppa]

Hi @Grasshoppa didn't want to leave you hanging. I really feel for you, some days se...

Have heard his voice in 3 weeks. No return text in 2 weeks. But thank you for this it always makes me feel better coming here .

@Grasshoppa I want to say the same things that @Linzee said to...

Thank you

 

[Linzee]

Have heard his voice in 3 weeks. No return text in 2 weeks. But thank you for this it always makes m...

I know how hard that is, its like torture when you really care about/ love someone.
I wanted to add that ultimately I think you have to do what's right right for you. If its eating you up and depressing you that's not fair. Take care of yourself. :hug: